Life is the game of the heart, no wonder the holy book instructed us to guide the heart with all diligence, if it is not well guided, then there will be so much issues far beyond explanations. looking at the our theme for the month DISSAPOINTMENT , This is a feelings of sadness or displeasure, as a result of unfulfilled hope or expectation.

As a matter of fact, as long as we are in the world, we should always expect a thing like this, me in my opinion, i think that if we do not decide the kind people we meet at work, market, office and along our journey in life, there will be a high percentage of not being able to have control over failed expectations. i will also love to bring to our notice that a failed expectation is also an integral part of man.

I know you will be asking to know why i say that it is part of life, yes i believe so, because some disappointment bring so much blessing along side with it, Many times what we will identify or can see and call a disappointment, is a well designed package with amazing content but because we can not see or have access to to the content, we will define it in our limited view and perspective, as such we will only be granted access to the external view of the package, and if the be so, there is bound to be a caught short of expectation.

In every event that happens around us, it always come with a two side effect, negative and positive, one may think that it comes by luck but the truth is that how you see it, how you receive it and the state of your heart, is the key to the subject of disappointment, if you have a wrong view, wrong understanding and wrong receptive power, all will land you in the feeling of displeasure and sadness. so how do we handle them?

Wrong Views (Perspective):

Anything your eye sees or captures wrongly is always give a wrong result, if you can not see in the light of the true image, then you will be shocked when you are presented with the real image, imagine that all your days, were invested in exploring the wrong image you captured, only to end up with anger and frustration, when you realize that you were on the wrong course, when you have a wrong view about life, you will settle for frustration.

Wrong understanding about life:

This is something that i have seen around me, every day, there are people with an entitlement mentality, who believe that what ever comes to them is a right, all the times they expect that things should only be coming to them, they have no idea that things should leave them, they always expect people to do them good and not expect good from them. If you have this mindset, the experience of being frustrated in expectation will abound at all times.

Wrong Receptive strength:

the will of a man is a powerful tool, this ia what grants permission to what enters the man's heart and dominate a man, the state of your heart per time is what decides weather you experience the positive or the negative expectation.

I do believe that if we give deliberate attention to these three things i just mentioned and effectively considered then, we will be able to maximize this guy, when we eventually have them.