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One very interesting thing that i have know in live is that we can not predict correctly the event and occasions that befalls us on the daily basis. Surprise is one of such event that comes when you least expected them and amazingly in it nature has the capacity to create memories, as a matter of fact the memories comes in two ways, the way it meets you determines the impact it will leave with you.
Some of such moments can create joy with no limits and at the same time can bring about so much bitterness, hmmmmm... What an amazing experience, The lovely thing about it is that, you can not escape, avoid or do without this my awesome friend call surprises, over the years i have tried within my little best to avoid it or make plans to escape it but in all my trying, it must come.

The second amazing thing i will say about surprises is that, it can never visit and leave without a mark, the impact is always such that can not be denied. I will share two awesome surprising experience in my life and the impact that it brought.

The third thing i also will love to bring to your noticed that this guy called surprise, has no enemy, its a friend to all, it can come from nature, family, friends and can even come from you, Like my friend @mercmarg said in her post,

Throughout our journey in each stage of our lives, childhood, adolescence, adulthood, we have been part of surprises that we have been taken by different situations in the activities of our day to day. These can be pleasant and not so pleasant according to the moment in which it happened. link

it happens everywhere, you can not stop it, you can only enjoy the event if your mind is well structured to handle it when it comes. in my next post in the months theme, i will share in my own ways how i handle surprise and how it has been a blessing to my life, meanwhile lets login to two experienced that i had promised to share.

My experience from unexpected event but with beautiful lessons:

I happen to come from and as well grow up in a family that trusting God for a better life, but my parent, even when it was not very green, did their best to private schools as children, I was doing very well in school but for the fact that we were still mixing together with the other children in the community, so i comfortably communicated my dialed, as every other child did within our neighborhood did, Not known to me that my Dad was not very comfortable with my frequent communication in my dialed but he was looking for good and a better opportunity to react.

One very Good evening, i was busying myself like my normal dealings at home, my Dad return from his friends place, as soon as he came in, he called me by name, so i responded in my normal way, he ask me about 6 questions in my dialed and i also responded in our dialed not knowing that the day was a different one altogether, within me, i was feeling myself that i have answered all the questions he asked, so i wanted to move, there and then my Dad grabbed me by the hand, He gave me the beating of my life, While he was beating me, He was asking me, if it is not the same fees that his friend pays for her daughter that He is paying for me, surprisingly my Dad was beating me because i was i responded to all his questions while at his friends place, my school mate did it in English, I tell you the truth from that day, my tongue changed, it is over twenty-five years the event took place, but i am trying and at the same time, struggling to communicate in my dialed, but it made me develop my ability to speak in English.

My Attempt to give my friend a surprise that left her half dead in the classroom:

In my secondary school days, I had a set of 6 friends 4 boys and a girl, we were boarding student, so we were always found together. one a good day, i was returning to the classroom to check on them, i found out that the only girl in our team was seated on a high stool, and was backing the class room, she was not aware that i was coming, so i walked in slowly then i tickled her, like i would do to the other guys, only to see her on the ground, The amazing experience that i wanted was, changed, my eyes were filled with tears, i so regretted the surprise that i wanted, I want you to know that surprised will always come, so develop your self and be positive about surprise.

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