RE: Amidst All The Chaos Of Adulthood Lies The Interesting Part Of Life
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Adulthood and Childhood. Somehow I can relate with you, the wish to become an adult when being a child, and later when a teenager and such. That said to me it became clear quite early in my childhood that being an adult is a much harder life than being a child or teenager. Perhaps I realised this because I always saw my parents working hard and long hours. Perhaps also because at an early age I was helping my dad out with his business. Perhaps also due to the fact I started to live by myself when I was 15 years of age, in a kinda student home, but not for students, at least I wasn't a student then and (much) younger than others living in the same house where we shared the kitchen, bathroom and such. Anyways, though I at some stage wanted to do something else than going to school (Uni later on), I was given the total freedom and support by my parents to not walk into proper adult life (ie move out of school, start jobbing and such), their support I always embarrassed and pushing out adulthood for as long as I could.
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It seems you had your eyes wide open while growing up. I mean, it must have been tough, but in the end, those experiences build you up and add to your strength.
One thing I’ve noticed about people who grew up this way is the knowledge and wisdom they possess.
It can be harder for those who grew up behind closed doors and only get to experience life at a later age.
Like me, I didn’t experience much of adulthood until my recent years.
Honestly, I think for each individual, it can be a different experience in whatever form one grows up. Not everything is determined by circumstances and the environment one is in. Part is also our character which is at least partially, defined by our genes. My take is, in whatever situation one is, or through whatever phase we are going, always positivity can be found, even if it doesnt feel like that. I think it is the art of finding that positivity and use that to progress. You finding adulthood relatively recent, is all good. You had the chance to not act as an adult longer, which has it positive sides, am pretty sure. Just find that and caress that.