Separate your work from you (ENG-ESP)

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How complicated it is when you have a partner who in addition to being a photographer and influencer, is also an occasional model. Having to recreate moments or situations where you feel an identical copy of your private life printed in a photo with a person you love very much, is something that not many would tolerate. Anyone would think that feeling jealousy or envy would be almost impossible in these cases and even more so when you are the one taking the picture of your girlfriend with someone else (hehe). ㅤ ㅤ


But I think it's like when you have a model completely naked or in her underwear in front of you, and it's a situation where you obviously can't yell obscenities at her or make her feel sexually assaulted for everything to go professionally. The same philosophy I think is applicable to this, when you are aware that everything is fiction and a complete set up, you can achieve an objective mentality in which you can separate the author from his work.

And if we take it to a more extreme case, there are actresses or actors in adult films who have partners who are not in the same business as them and are able to carry on their relationships like any other. Which opens up a very interesting debate: how much love or maturity do you need in a relationship to be able to reach those limits? Would you be able to separate the two sides of the coin for a person you really love?

I took these photos for a Valentine's Day advertisement and they are of my complete authorship, if you wish you can also appreciate them on my Instagram.

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Que complicado es cuando tienes una pareja que además de ser fotógrafa e influencer, también es modelo ocasional. Tener que recrear momentos o situaciones donde sientes un calco idéntico de tu vida privada impresa en una foto con una persona que amas muchísimo, es algo que no muchos tolerarían. Cualquiera pensaría que sentir celos o envidia sería casi imposible en estos casos y más cuando tú eres el que toma la foto a tu novia con otro (jeje). ㅤ ㅤ


Pero pienso que es como cuando tienes una modelo completamente desnuda o en ropa interior frente a ti, y es una situación en la que obviamente no puedes gritarle obscenidades ni hacerla sentir sexualmente atacada para que todo se desarrolle de manera profesional. La misma filosofía pienso que es aplicable a esto, cuando eres consiente que todo es ficción y un completo montaje, puedes lograr una mentalidad objetiva en el que puedes separar al autor de su obra.

Y si lo llevamos a un caso más extremo, hay actrices o actores de películas para adultos que tienen parejas que no se dedican a lo mismo que ellos y son capaces de llevar sus relaciones como cualquier otra. Lo cual abre un debate bastante interesante y es que, ¿qué tanto amor o madures hace falta tener en una relación para poder llegar a esos límites? ¿Tú serias capaz de separar las dos caras de la moneda por una persona que realmente amas?

Estas fotos las realice para una publicidad del día de san Valentín y son de mi completa autoria, si desean pueden ir a apreciarlas igualmente en mi Instagram.


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Lovely shots my friend, well done! Thanks for sharing.

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These photos are incredible! I hope you cherish them forever because they are just so good and so intense.

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Thank you very much. In fact every photograph I take I always treasure too much, as I feel they all say something about me and who I am. 😊

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