Problem with Success That Nobody Tell You!
I have reached half life close to it. And I realized that success is timed thing. Like you are supposed to get married early in life. You have to get the work done early and also get the funds and the money early in life. This way you would have a good success that society would respect you for and then let you have some beathing space.
There are problems with success. A lot of success is easier when it comes early and there are some of the success that needs to come in time. If you don't do that things just get difficult and you would struggle forever on that note.
Here are some of the issues with the success that I wish to discuss with you.
Success needs to be timely. I was broke when I was in 20s and my parents are super strict and controlling and they never let me off the city where I was born. And I left the city after the 30s and meanwhile I had gained enough experience. This made me earn a good money. But marriage and other financial milestones were left off. In short success in 20s would have got me family and kids but that train is slowly sailing off.
Success also is harder to retain. I invest into the dividend stocks and the ETF heavily and the money is not visible. You have to invest into the right time and age in order for that to increase every year otherwise nobody would think that I am doing good finance wise. So there is that problem for me which needs to be addressed.
Success needs to be visible for the family. Mine was not and so parents and the people turned off against me. And this made the life bitter and also the relationship even more bitter. Now that I didn't showed off and I went away and managed to show off now which made them powerless and they turned out to make this harsh on me.
Takeaway Points:
- Make sure to do things early for success.
- Make sure to bring family into success.
- Keep staying invested otherwise money becomes the damage to life.
- Invest for long term, like dividend stock.
- Keep adding income source.
Money is certainly an important aspect of life, but I'm wondering... if the people whom you thought were close to you turned you away only due to financial reasons, are they truly people that you would want in your life? Are they worth your time and energy if they only see you for what's in your wallet?
I lived my life in 20s as if parents are right, abuse is okay, siblings know better, they are not evil. And wasted my life in 20s and now 30s living that lie and wasted money and time on that. But now moving away it's hard but doing it because if I don't stand up now they would leech my lifeforce and leave me for suicide. I trusted parents and siblings like they were my gold and they were only eyeing their own old age and my finances. Life happened in between.
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I would say that it’s important to do some things early but at the same time - choose things wisely. Don’t just rush into marriage or having children because you are pressured to do it. Find the right person and then do those things. I know a few people who did the “check the box” type shit and they are miserable. It’s important to balance the good things in life with the right time and mindset for success.