The fighting that leads to several benefits.

Good afternoon everyone, hope we are enjoying our day, i wish us all the best of Sunday.

Fight is a normal thing as long as life is concerned, fighting can either set in between friends, co-worker, or couple but the most important thing the ending should be in peace that is it's end in understanding.

My serious fight with my mother-inlow

Fighting between i and my mother in-law has brought several benefit for me it helps us to set boundaries and have a better understanding in communication.

What leads to the fight

4years ago when we relocate to the family house because of my father in-law illness, i was not happy with the way my mother in-law do treat me, i keep complaining to my husband but because she is his mom there is nothing he could do rather than to say sorry unbe half of his mom, which I understand with him, i keep on enduring on till one day which i couldn't bear it any longer.

My husband said i should cook noodles for the kids which brings issue at home she feels am cooking only for my family living the rest of them, she followed me to my room and started boring some Insult on me but i try my best not to retaliate but when it reaches one stage ooo, i retaliate for the first time to my mother in-law after 4years of marriage.

That surprise everyone, my mother in-law went inside and put on her trouser that she want to fight and i was ready to fight too, i have hard enough of her insult all this year's it was a serious matter but to cut the story short people intervene by setting the two of us down to settle the matter.

And i found out that I allowed my emotions to control me and I asked her for forgiveness for all the things I said to her and likewise she too.

But today we are best of friends, she can't do anything without Confiding in me because we now understand each other better.

Fighting has strengthen our relationship.

Thanks for stopping by and do have a wonderful Sunday.