Rant Rant Rant

It’s been a while since I wrote in this community and that’s been because lately, I’ve been trying to keep my personal life a bit more private, especially now that many of my in-real life friends are on Hive. Lol I really need to get this quick one out of my system though because I’ve been sitting with it for like 3 days now and it just keeps pissing me off.

A bit of context

Right now, I’m teaching Biology at SHS as a Lead for Ghana fellow. At the school I was posted to, I’ve been assigned to teach second year and third year Agricultural Science students. But I’ve been sort of forced to take on an additional role of teaching third year students as well now by the supposed third year Biology teacher.

The headmaster of the school we’re currently at mistakenly introduced my colleague and I as “Volunteers”(We’re not), and it seems this third year teacher took the “Volunteer” label too serious. He basically cornered me into teaching the third year class by asking me to “help” him teach them extra class. Now myself, I don’t have a problem with taking on extra work. In fact, I had plans of teaching them extra class myself already.

My problem is the approach he used to get me to do it. What he told me was that he would be teaching the extra class himself, but wanted me to step in on his behalf on days he would not be present. Then on the day we agreed to announce our intentions to the students, we went together to the third year classes and he told them I will be teaching them extra class now. This caught me off guard cos that was not what we agreed prior. I didn’t want to have a disagreement with him or anything in front of the students, so I said nothing to him, and simply introduced myself to the students.

The issue is that right now, I don’t have a lot of time for even myself because I’m trying to do a lot of things, so even the extra class I was planning to start for the students was something I planned to start later. Maybe in the next 3 months.

The Lead for Ghana fellowship is very demanding because even though we teach, that is not all we do. We have many other responsibilities that require our attention. So I wanted to take on the extra class after I am able to fully adjust to everything, then tweak my schedule to fit it in.

Now thanks to this extra class, in addition to my regular hours, my Wednesday and Friday nights are occupied and I’m not prepared for the stress teaching this extra class long term will come with. Of course, I want to help the students, but now is just not when I planned for that on my timeline.

There’s more

As if this wasn’t enough, the same teacher also approached me literally 2 days before our exam question submissions were due to ask me to set exam questions for the class he teach cos “he’ll be traveling”. I had two problems with that.

First, I don’t have the time cos I am already extremely busy, exhausted, and racing against the same deadline to submit my own questions for my students. Second, these are NOT my students. I didn’t teach them, so how exactly do you want me to be able to assess their understanding when I don’t even know what they were taught. I actually raised the second point to him.

But of course, he tried to find a way out by telling me he’ll just give me a list of the topics he taught and I can just set the question. But even that doesn’t solve the problem. Okay, I know what topics you did, but what exactly did you teach them? What did you say in class, based on which I can assess them? Did you teach all the topics under Strand A? What type of learners are your students? Sooo many discrepancies and concerns.

I thought that bringing all these up will get him to understand why he has to be the one to set his questions, but that didn’t work. So I’m writing this post, 2 days after the deadline has passed for both of us to submit our questions, because I had to work on questions for both classes starting Friday, and taking up my entire weekend.


I enjoy teaching a lot. I just discovered that about myself. But right now, I really just can’t take any more extra work on top of what I’m already assigned. That’l be too much on my plate. I plan to be very unapologetically clear about taking on anymore responsibilities at this point because I’m starting to realize that if I don’t draw a line, I might just become the go-to guy to delegate responsibilities to.

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Can’t you just say no?
It really must be hard to be the nice guy
Because I know very well, I was going to talk the moment he said “I’ll be teaching the extra class”
Eyy small teaching that I’m doing you want to kill me?
Hw3

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Can’t you just say no?

I can't. I mean, I could, but I don't want to disappoint the students. The past 3 weeks I've been teaching them, I see their excitement about the class and I don't want to be the party pooper. I just didn't want to do it now. The accelerated timeline is the problem.

Like I said though, this is the last thing I'm doing for him (or anybody else) cos over the next few weeks, I plan to start some initiatives on campus, and when I do, I'll have my hands completely full. At that point, even if I wanted to, I won't be able to take on any extra work.

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So at that point what happens to excitement on the students’ faces?

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I'll still keep this class going. What I'm saying is that I won't accept any new responsibilities.

These guys are third year students, so they'll be gone in about 4 months. I'll just manage them until then.

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Bro, this is similar to my situation here. Since he wouldn't listen, then so would I not listen. He breached the contract and so would I. I simply will not show up for anything. At the end of the day, he's the one that they'll send queries to, not me.

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Man, I'm really sorry to hear. I think I gave him the impression it was okay to dump his stuff on me. I'm going to fix it.

ps: this post right here was actually the inspiration behind my "strong opinions" on that quote you asked for peoples' opinions on. Lol

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Yeah man that’s frustrating for sure. The mantra these days “do more with less” is such horse shit. It’s bad for everyone involved and the only group that isn’t doing more with less is government.

Hopefully things smooth out for you in this crap, we take these lessons as growing opportunities for later. What not to do, type stuff. It absolutely sucks in the moment but this guy has ruined his trust with you and that won’t come back so take the experience, build on it and when the opportunity strikes move to greener pastures.

Also I hear you on stepping back a bit for posting life stuff on hive! I’ve also trimmed it down a bit, where I’m keeping a lot of information off the chain. Best that way, I think!

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build on it and when the opportunity strikes move to greener pastures

Of course! I’m looking for that opportunity as we speak. It’s a pity though, because aside this experience (and a few negligible others), I love this place. It’s not the best place I could be, but I love the vibe I have with the students here.

Best that way, I think

Yeah, man. I think I learnt this a little too late, but I’m practicing it slowly now.

It absolutely sucks in the moment but this guy has ruined his trust with you and that won’t come back

This actually makes me very sad because I made a mistake somewhere last year that sort of compromised my trust with someone, and now hearing this just tells me they’ll never see me differently (in a positive way) again. I hope that’s not the case though because in my case it was a momentary lack of foresight and better judgement. I’m not really expecting to get one(second chance) anyways, but I just hope they can understand it wasn’t deliberate. Lol sorry about the dump, man:)

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Never be sorry for getting a few things off your chest man! Men don’t get enough of a chance to do that I think!

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I think he's trying to get more leeway into delegating his work to you with the hopes that you'll accept it and say nothing since you're new. Perhaps, you could communicate with him to clarify that you guys are not 'Volunteers' and have no time to take in additional work just yet.

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Yhp. The New Guy is the do guy in his eyes. He’s about to find out otherwise.

I’m not sure I can clarify to him we’re not volunteers without disrespecting him directly, so I’ll try to do that in a subtle way. And if even after that, he tries another one, yeah I’ll give it to him straight.

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I thought in a secondary school about 7 years ago and believe me, school owners are very cunning people, at the end of the day, you don't even have a comfort zone. I can imagine the stress

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Tell me about it. I’ll just have to manage right now as I search for a much more peaceful position.

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haha this is all way too relatable.

many of my in-real life friends are on Hive

Hope you can find the balance-life work you need. It's been a while since I read yours too, this was a nice rant!

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Thanks, Mac:)

Haha my thoughts were very disorganized and my anger all over the place when I started writing. Glad it came out comprehensible.

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Considering you’ve already said you have a plan to handle that now, I believe there’s nothing more to say.

Some people are just too much. If you are traveling, couldn’t you set the questions before? Tsw

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