adopted but not neglected

Good day and happy weekend, amazing people of hive block chain. Welcome back to my blog. It is another edition in the #hivelearners community, and I am so delighted to be participating in this week's prompt topic: Am I adopted?

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Hearing the news that I am not their real child will throw me off balance. This is a family I have known to live with all through my life. Coming up with this story will really be hard for me to handle. Seriously, I can’t stand the shock. It will really be the biggest shock of my life. At that moment, my mind will be blank, and a lot of questions will be running through my head. You don’t expect me to be happy; I will be so emotional. It will take me days to recover from the shock. These are people that I have known as my parents since I was little. The news will really traumatise me.

On a second though, I have to rethink. I have been in an orphanage several times each time I visit, and most of the kids cry whenever I go home. I will really be grateful to them for training me from childhood to adulthood; it is not easy. Adoption is not an easy decision. You will receive much advice from family and friends about why you should not adopt. For them to take that decision and also treat me like their biological child, I have every reason to thank them for adopting me.

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The majority of the people hate adoption. I can still remember when my aunt was still looking for a child. The husband suggested that she go and adopt a child, but my aunt declined because she wanted a child from her own blood. Many people don’t love the idea of adopted children. There is this woman that lives in my street. She loves children every three years. She most often adopts a child. One thing I love about this woman is the way she takes care of these kids. You will never know that they are not her biological kids. She attends the same school with her kids. The love is so pure, I most say.

Our relatives treat us like trash talk, more like adopted parents who show me love and treat me like their daughter. Discovery that I am adopted, do I even have the right to be angry? What is forgiveness that I will not forgive for keeping the truth from me?

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Will I forgive my parents for keeping it from me for such a long time?

Oh yes, I will forgive them. I understand them fully. Probably they were waiting for the best time to let me know, letting me know if you truly love that child you adopted. You will never let them know at a tender age that you are not their biological parents. I have come of age, and I can handle my emotions. That is why they have to let me know at my tender age I will not be able to handle it because it will affect me psychologically, even mentally. For the fact they brought me into their home and treated me like their biological child, I will forgive them, and I will never joke with them. I will forever be grateful to them.

This is my entry on the ongoing content #hivelearners #hl-w135e1 topic I adopted.

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