Why always Different ? :-- I am Exceptional

Why Are You Always Different? :-- I Am Me, I Am Exceptional.

Hello beloved Content Writers I believe we're all good and thank God for that, I've always heard these words "why so different"? and "as they're doing so why don't you do same? Mind you by this they meant worldly things/negativity that don't adhere to my jurisdiction or up bringing.

Oh wait! Before we dive in don't wear that vest of negativity concerning the "always different aspect " you just read, been different can be of Good and uniqueness. So please put on the vest of exceptionalism and let's ride on... Chuckle!
Some people see failure as a total surrender or a give up situation but I see it as a "what went wrong", so I could avoid it next time and a never giving up spirit when doing the right thing.

This event happened in my Senior secondary school when I was in SS1, we were just introduced to a subject called Physics that deals with both theoretical and practical learning aspect, I was a very slow learner back then which made me stand out from others, and yeah my colleagues noticed and they often mock me by saying " he is just different, will this boy even pass this subject? I wasn't bothered though by the side talks but trust me to some persons it can be frustrating, anytime our physics teacher teaches the class a particular topic and didn't do a simple demonstrations just theoretical aspect I won't follow up, because I noticed that explaining to me without demonstration (practical) tends to put me in a stagnant and often confused state.

So I summoned the courage to be meeting the physics teacher outside his schedules to always put me through again this time practically even to the simplest explanation of "Gravity" and "Achimedis Principles" which others understood immediately while mine needed a demonstration before I could even be on the same page. To my surprise he never for once drove me away anytime I meet him personally. He then told me I was "exceptionally different" knowing my different style of learning, him knowing fully well I didn't allow my issues to weigh me down despite the mocking by my fellow student. Then later he said a few encouraging words with blessings I shouldn't be shy by the way I learn new things academically and that I would go places and I affirm Amen!.

And few months back I had a funny experience with a lady few weeks ago it was on a bright shinning day with the sun at the peak that was about 12pm, I headed to a Point of sale popularly called P. O. S to make a deposit and a transfer of cash then I noticed a lady walked in, also wanting to make same kind of transaction too. she was very pretty and dark the type they call "ebony" I was wowed and I complimented her for her beauty she replied thank you with a quick blush. We got to discuss about NYSC and Life stages Quite then the pretty lady was expecting or observing if I would ask for her contact as always the norms of today when a guy sees a pretty lady he's first aim is to get her phone number which to me is not an important factor because I am still a stranger to her.

After I was attended too and was about leaving she said jokingly won't you ask me of my contact I didn't hesitate to say No, like I said earlier there's always a norms that a guy seeing a girl for the first time would by all means want to get her contact chuckles, it was a normal thing, I asked her do you always use this particular POS? she replied yes then I'll always be seeing you because I also use this particular point. By the look on her face she was surprised and wondering why I wasn't interested in her contact. "you're different o" came out from her mouth accompanied with a smile.

Carry yourself with dignity, respect yourself and respect others

Stop trying to please everyone, you were not created to fit in but to stand out

Walk with confidence like the royalty you are.

Learn to speak up in every phase of oppression.

The world needs you but not the version that refuse you to shine. So rise up and make exploit. God bless.

Till I write to you again Hivers #peace
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