[Week 131] Weekend Quality, In Search For a New Friend
My new friends qualities and why.
This topic really comes at the right time because am kind of person that doesn't make friends. I prefer being on my own because all my efforts to make friends proofs to be abortive. Not that I don't have friends but having a close one best friend has been my challenge. I do laugh or play with poeple around me, but still don't have someone I can call my best friend. This weekend, am prepared to make new friends that has the following qualities.
- Trustworthy
The first quality I want my friends to possess is trustworthiness. Yeah, I can keep secrets and it pains when my friends can't keep a secret. So, I really need someone who will not share what I have discussed with him/her with others. I need a trustworthy person because I really need someone to confide on when I have challenges or difficulties. I don't need a basket mouth that will share my secrets to the whole world that's why am going for a trustworthy person
- A good listener
That's quality number 2. It hots me a lot if someone don't understand my feelings or cut me off when am trying to express my feelings. I hate it too while discussing something very important to a friend he will be busy with his phone. That's why I need a good listener as my friend. Who will understand me and help me out
- Kind and generous
A kindhearted person will likely be generous. So, I need a friend that will be kind to me and who can assist me when am in need. Being it emotional or financial support.
To get good friends, one needs to be friendly and also be a good person. So, why going for friends, I don't care if you are older than me or my mate, I do go for poeple that possess the qualities of mine. So, I will equally need an Honest person to be my friend.
- Honesty
I don't joke with this quality at all. Am always honest and if you are not, you can't be my friend. Am honest person is someone you can trust. Honesty and trust works together. And if a person possesses these qualities, it's someone you can work with. Why I need an honest person is this, I love making good changes and adjustments in my life. So, I need someone who will be honest to tell me where I need to make changes in my life. Someone that will be bold to tell me my mistakes, my flaws and where I need to work on. It's only an honest friend will be able to open to you.
Am an imperfect, so I don't expect my friends to be perfect. But why going for new friends this weekend, these are most of the qualities I will be looking up to.
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Trust a big ingredient of great relationships. When one cannot keep a secret, relationships go downhill from there. So its good to be able to hold a secret. That way, it will be easy to remain friends and be trustworthy
Yeah, trust keeps relationship healthy. Thanks so much for your going through my post
The quality of friends you are looking for is rare but is possible to have them as long as you yourself have those qualities. You can be of good friend @chichieze
Yeah, it's hard to fine those qualities. But since it's qualities I possess, o will definitely get someone like me this weekend
Amazing qualities you seek. A friend should be able to tick those boxes. What's friendship without any of those?
Hopefully, you find the person soon. Well-done!
Yes, it's a good qualities a friend needs to cultivate. Thanks so much for reading and commenting on my post
I believe that the people around us actually represent us, so you are very right in your criteria. The most important thing is reliability.
Find a good friend is rear but once you find yourself on you won't want to let them go. Friendship makes life more funnier. Cheers to us who need a good friend. Thanks for sharing and have a lovely weekend.
Thanks so much for coming around. It's not easy to find good friends. But once you get 1, count yourself lucky
You are welcome.To find them might not be easy but not impossible.
Exactly, it's very possible
Yes, have a wonderful day ahead.
@chichieze, you don't need to walk down the aisle to find a friend with all the above mentioned qualities. I posesed them all. Just think about it!
But, while searching for a good friend, hope you're also well prepared to merit such friendship?
But, in addition, don't forget tolerance. It's important.
Tolerance is very important in a relationship. Thanks for the reminder
I thought of that. Even marriages crash because of lack of tolerance
It's very important to have responsible people as friends because people will judge us by the kind of people we keep.
Exactly my dear.
Responsible poeple should always be our friends
Yes oo it's very important.
I love the word kind and generous, it really showed the kind of person you are, but people like that are difficult to get this days.
Yeah, but I am one of them. That's why am looking for a such person
Yeah my dear honesty is one of the key to good friendship. By so doing your friend can stand for you especially when nobody believe l or trust you.
Very correct dear. Honesty saves life. Thanks for coming around
You are welcome
Waoo, you have said it all, having a best friend is good, but having a friend in need, is a friend indeed. Keep it up.
Thanks for stopping by man