恋爱脑｜sensibility
“皇上，你还记得大明湖畔的夏雨荷吗？”在过了十几年之后，乾隆都忘了自己的风流韵事，而《寻秦记》中的吕不韦和当时秦国的大王异人都还想着接朱姬回国的时候，我立马就想到了这句台词。
吕不韦以为嬴政是自己的亲儿子，而又没有其它的儿子，所以他处心积虑的想“自己的儿子”能够回到秦国继承王位，继续他“奇货可居”的传奇。只不过没想到的是即使是真的嬴政，也不是他的亲儿子。
而秦国大王呢？我觉得应该算是真爱了，当初动心的时候朱姬就是吕不韦的小妾，而且回国之后继承王位的他，之后也是有其他夫人的，但是他却依然为了朱姬的流言蜚语而吃醋和暴跳如雷。
可惜恋爱脑的朱姬偏偏对爱她的男人不感兴趣，偏偏喜欢吕不韦，在得不到吕不韦的关爱之后，便把自己的爱给了连晋冒充的嫪毐身上。只可惜她总是所托非人，连晋一直都是个卑鄙小人。
那她有没有什么退路呢？像善柔一样不把自己的幸福寄托在男人身上，好好习武，修身养性，似乎不太可能；像琴清一样饱读诗书，做个博学多才的才女，似乎还可以努力，但可能她也学不进去。
她其实还是有心计的，比如将刚刚出生的嬴政掉包成牛政，那么她是否可以像武曌或者吕后一样成为政治女强人呢？我觉得是有机会的，虽然她的家人背景不太清楚，吕不韦和大王显然都可以成为她的后台。
但是她心中想的只有情爱，这个愿望无论在哪个时代来说都是一件非常奢侈的事情。所以在吕不韦拒绝了她之后，她投身于嫪毐的怀抱，最后吕不韦不仅废了嫪毐的武功，还让嫪毐做了太监。
可以理解她带着儿子在赵国做了十几年人质，想有个知冷知暖的男人陪伴的心情，但是她的选择确实是不太明智的。就我看来，我觉得大王是个不错的丈夫，也是个不错的父亲，可惜她偏不喜欢。
有朋友说读书的时候最喜欢的女主是乌廷芳，现在最喜欢的是善柔。以我现在一个成年人的眼光来看，我最欣赏的也是善柔，因为她爱得很理智，知道自己想要的是什么，也知道该拒绝什么。
其实恋爱脑也没有那么可怕，恋爱脑的人也有可爱之处，比如她们的爱很真挚。如果意识到恋爱脑的坏处，也不妨给自己一些其它的人生目标和追求，多一些理智和对自己的关爱。
It is not easy to stay sense when falling in love, the mother of the first king in China is kind of too sensibility in personal relationship. She chose a wrong man to stay with and this also ruined her own life and the relationship between she and her son. Maybe she could choose power or fortune, or to be a wise woman in history, but she didn't.
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恋爱中的女人智商为零😂
😅总结得好！
还珠格格的经典台词，可惜第一部已经不能再看到了
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