JUDGE NOT

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Hello guys, how are you all. Here I am, at the corner of my room reminiscing about life and those around us, our family, friends, neighbors, and colleagues and the roles they get to play in our life.

My first question is, what kind of friend are you? Are you the type that judge, blame or crucify any decisions or steps people around you make?

This actually took me back to some years, lemme say like four years when i needed the support of some of my friends when I was pregnant with my son, buh what I got was rather More shocking than what I expected because things didn't actually go the way they thought it would be. But with the picture of what happened, I've learnt not to have any close friends, just more of a distance friends.

This was also an eye opener for me not to jugde anyone unreasonably when I'm not the in their shoes.
Ever since then though, I've met some other couple of great people, that during our conversation, I've
learnt to listen, support and not
jugde them, those that are close knows that I allow you to take your decision and the best I could do or thought I could is advice and support their decisions because it's their life, so instead of judging their actions.

So let's learn to support people around us in whatever they do, funny enough these people are really going through stuffs or lots and they needs your support,they needs you to cheer them on,they might not say it, buh this is what they actually wants from you.
So be a friend in need, support them with whatever you have and as you do all these you will always be appreciated.

Thank you for reading