Some people blame their wrongdoings on others, no one should be blamed for the things you did as long as no one points a gun at you to do them.

source

6 children were together in a house, 5 boys and a girl who was younger than the 5, three of the boys SA the girl, and the other 2 chose not to engage in the act, instead they left the room where it was being done to another room, even though the other 2 boys could have done better by saving the girl from the bad ones but they choose to do nothing in that way, they also indirectly hurt the girl by minding their business.

Will we blame the parent of the other 3 who decided to SA the girl? the other two that didn't do it, it was not as if their parent ever told them not to do it, they didn't have a lesson on that before that day but could tell what the others were doing to the girl was not right.

Two siblings grew up differently, One grew up to be a drunkard while the other grew up to hate alcohol when they were both asked the reason why they chose that life, the first one said he learned it from his father while the second one that hates alcohol said he chooses not to have anything to do with it because he saw how his father who was a drunkard used to beat his mother which made him vow never to live such a life because he does not want his wife to suffer the same as his mother.

It is time we stop blaming the parents for the actions of their kids, A child that wants to be evil can not be saved no matter the advice and strictness of the parent.

Some children thank their parents for being strict on them when they were young which made them not become wayward while some blame their bad behaviors on the strictness of their parents and I say again that it is not the parent, whatever you are now is what you choose for yourself.

source

In this era, Parents don't even know what their kids are up to in the corner of their room, he/she might be doing something bad that the parents have no knowledge about, and there are stories about girls who turn their cameras down online to earn money, and we have children who engage in immorality without their parent knowing.

When I was young, I loved playing a lot to the extent that my mum would start looking for me with a cane, I craved freedom, and years after I gained that freedom I no longer craved that outgoing lifestyle, it was me! not my mother's strictness because we have people who were also restrained by their parents and when they gained freedom, they lived that life their parents told them not to and some end up ruining their lives.

At least we have heard of cases where people change the moment they gain admission into school, the life they could not live when staying with their parents, they could live it now and overdo it but later regret it. That is them no fault with their parent

People need to learn to take the blame for their actions and stop playing the victim, you were SA as a teenager and because of this, you choose to live a wayward life. When they ask you why you chose that lifestyle, you blame it on the person who SA you when you were young. Still, there is someone who was also SA when young and chose to live a decent life and protect other young ones from the same fate, so you choose who you want to be, and whatever your actions are, it is all your fault, Never blame anyone for what you turned out to be.

You are who you want to be

Just call me Burl.

I am a professional gamer, motivational speaker and a crypto enthusiast

Discord: burlarj#8326
Twitter id: burlarj1
Telegram: burlarj
God exists, I am a living testimony
Giving up is not an option, every hustler has a payday
Don't wish for it, Make it happen