The world will be a better place if many possesses these three traits
Traits are qualities that differentiate an individual from another. There are many different traits but I value some more than others.
The three life traits I think everyone should possess are Patience, loyalty, and Forgiveness.
The heart of Forgiveness is one important trait I think everyone should possess if people learn to forgive others for the wrong deed being done to them either intentionally or unknowingly, the world would be a better place, many people have a vengeful heart and one thing we also need to know is that when we refuse to forgive those who hurt us, we are only hurting ourselves more because we also would not have rest of mind till we carry out the revenge and it often does not end well.
We must learn to channel our anger towards doing something positive, anger is not a destructive spirit as most think, it only gives us the boldness to do things we won't do on a normal day, but many see it as a time to wreck havoc, It is understandable that we get angry when we feel frustrated or provoked but we can channel that anger into something better.
I remember when I opened my first bank account in the year 2012, I was scared to visit the bank alone and I was waiting for my sister to escort me but she was always busy, One day, I was very angry and then the bank thing flashed my mind and without thinking twice, I went straight to the bank to open an account, if not for the anger, I would still be waiting for my sister, I also realized when angry, I work faster and better because I am fully focus, I did not use my anger to fight others or cause commotions.
Learn to forgive others without hurting them back, you will be among the few who want to make the world a better and safer place.
Patience solve most problem but some people lack this trait and hence why they fail in several aspect of their life.
Most people forget that when we cultivate crops, we have to wait for months before we can start reaping from it, many just want to start earning a lot of money without much effort while some prefer the shortcut to success, this is also one of the reasons why some easily get scammed.
You will see people engage in the Ponzi scheme, pay 50, 000 Naira, and cash out 5 million Naira after one month, how is this possible? but some people are so gullible and they still go ahead to donate their hard-earned money in the hope of big returns without any effort from them.
I remember when I joined Hive 6 years ago, It was hard to earn the coin because I was a newbie and I saw people earning a lot because they already knew their way around, some newbies like me who were impatient left the platform due to the low to zero earnings on their blog but I foresee the future is bright for me and I stick with this platform regardless of the struggle and difficulties in getting audience and voters, Here we are now, the present is better than the past, at least all my post is above 1 dollar. My patience paid off.
This is the heart of all virtues, I have a thing for loyal people, not necessarily people loyal to me, I have respect when someone exhibits the act of faithfulness and being loyal to others.
It is difficult to see loyal and faithful people in the world we are now, especially in relationships and businesses, this is why people get killed when they team up with friends or others for business.
This is also the reason why we have many failed relationships, I wonder how many homes would be broken, how many marriages would crash if DNA tests became free, many men are rearing bastards without them knowing because of their wives' infidelity.
We have men running after married women too, some men don't care if a lady is engaged or not, they will even say it doesn't matter which is also one of the reasons that cause a lot of unfaithfulness in our society, I just wish most people can exhibit this virtue, leave other people's lover alone and in business, do not betray your friends for money.
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Most of the chaos occurs because of having mentality to to take revenge. If the natural of forgiving exist in everyone's character than I believe that most of the chaos will be disappeared and peace will be established. Patience is a thing which needed in many cases. Loyalty is a thing which will ensure having trust on others and I completely agree with you.
I wish there things were present in everyone's character.
yes, an eye for an eye mindset. the world will be peaceful without people wanting to take revenge for the bad done to them and those doing bad will also repent.
All this traits you mention are very important and they are been connected to each other. One thing that is destroying the world is lack of patient and lack of loyalty,. It is lack of patient that makes a man to betray another man. People are been betrayed on a daily basis and this is where forgiveness comes in. People find it difficult to forgive those who have betrayed their loyalty, though as humans it is not easy. It takes the grace of God for someone to be able to forgive his neighbor.
I love the image you used on the loyalty trait. This is to tell you that there is 95% chances that water will betray fire, of course yes. Because when their is an unwanted fire, all we need to end it, is water. So if water could be loyal to fire without quenching it then we humans need to do better.
about the image, I gave it another meaning
It signify how hard it is for two people to live together as one amidst the difference and wants, which is the reason for many betrayals, divorcee and cheat but two people who are willing to stick together forever will find a way to understand and endure each other ad that is what makes a perfect couple.
I love this... Coupling is more about understanding and endurance.
All the qualities you mentioned are important. But you see forgiveness, it should be hammered upon more often . The way people go about with heavy chests, causing harm to themselves unknowingly is something else. Some of the issues surrounding the anger are flimsy. Some carry anger dating back to long years ago. It's not healthy.
you are right, some people do not have that forgiving spirit in them and that is because of what others have done to them, I prefer to ignore people than have that mindset of hurting them back.
Best to ignore them for your own sanity.
Anger can be a powerful force when used the right way and at the right time. I also don't see anger as totally destructive, although aspects of it can be. Loyalty is a great quality to have, especially in our dealings with people. It is a foundational trait.
This is it, many people just channel theirs destroying things, it can also be used to build things
You have said it all ,truly the world would be a better place if all the traits mentioned are experimented . Thank you for sharing
Let’s forget about the world. If everyone in this Lagos can be patient, e don better😂😂😂
It is exactly like this, if these three qualities are present in a person, then the life of a person becomes a little easier, and we all know that mistakes are made by humans, if we forgive the mistakes of others, one day. People will forgive our mistakes too. By forgiving mistakes, the relationship that is there becomes much stronger and love each other more.
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People are Soo unforgiven, they just want to revenge and on the process things get worse, impatient has taken the life of many, the world would have been a better place of everyone is loyal.
I call them THE THREE SEEDS to grow in life.