Signs your partner is cheating on you
Nowadays, relationships are so complicated and many people date for selfish reasons, gone are the days when people fell in love for no ulterior motives but purely based on how they feel.
The rate of infidelity and indecency is so high and it really surprises me how corrupt and bad people's minds can be
Bad things are now seen as common things.
We blame the ladies for cheating on their spouse/husband/boyfriend/fiance or whatever the other may be to them but what about the men/guys disturbing them before they eventually succumb to the indecent act?
you will hear words like:
he has not put rings on your finger
It does not matter
I won't let it affect the relationship you have with your husband
These are statements coming from men trying their luck and shooting their shot at ladies who are in a relationship with another man.
I do not think a responsible man should be saying something like this, once you figure out a lady is in a relationship, the right thing to do is respect yourself and let her be, because you also won't like it if another man is doing the same to your woman.
Here in my country, a lot of married women cheat on their husbands for materialistic things, and a lot of married men also cheat for sex, I wonder what happened to the vows they took on their wedding day.
Some people are taking care of other people's children without knowing, this is why DNA test is a must, unfortunately, not everyone can afford it, I am sure if DNA tests become free, many homes will be scattered due to the truth that will be discovered.
Regardless people tend to ignore the obvious signs that indicate their partner is cheating on them and here I am to drop some tips.
Being over-possessive with their phones: The phone holds a lot of information, Once your partner becomes over-possessive with his/her phone, you can't borrow their phone to make calls or do something without them being on your head to wait and collect the phone from you, you don't have access to their phone because they put in different passwords and pattern to block you out, it is the sign you need to know the person is cheating on you, don't take that excuse of privacy is needed.
Deleted chats: Some partners do not block your access to their phones but they delete chats, there is this person who is always on top of their chat list but whenever you check there is no message to read because all has been cleared, you do not need a soothsayer to figure out that he or she does not want you to see what they talked about, this also apply to people using disappearing messages.
Guilt trip: This is common with the female gender, they know how to guilt trip you into begging when you are not at fault when it gets to an extent that whenever you ask her about her activities and places she went to and rather than give you a straight answer, she plans to guilt trip you with her words like, you don't trust her anymore blah blah, that is the sign you need she is not pure, a partner that loves you will always want you to know her whereabouts and even tell you things you didn't ask her.
There are many other signs but I will stop here, the most important thing to know is to trust your instinct, once your mind starts telling you something is not right, do not ignore it!
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Saludos ...este tema es bien complejo como dicen por ahí mucha tela que cortar..los índices de infidelidades y son muy parejos hoy en día, se ha perdido el valor del matrimonio para la gran. Mayoría de las personas, como dices en tu post las cosas malas la están haciendo comunes, pero no es el deber ser... Gracias por tu publicación 🙏@burlarj
it is not how it should be but we are in a world where people don't care as long as they get what they want. we still have a few that are faithful though
De acuerdo todavía los hay.
Shut up dia😅😅
Well, you’re right but we all should not forget that there’s no gain in cheating. The highest a woman can gain from cheating is materialistic things which are of no use
Staying loyal to your partner is the best thing to do but what if you are being loyal to your man but he’s going otherwise?
they gain materialistic things and self-pleasure.
it is about both genders, am not after your gender alone lol
so it is necessary for both to be loyal, the faithfulness should not be one sided.
hehe. What to say? I am inexperienced in this field because I am unmarried and I don't have a girlfriend also. But in case of first thing I have it. It's a matter of my privacy and I lock each application even if I don't give others my mobile. In fact, I lock my browser applications also😅. To be honest I don't want to trust anyone 100% and I believe that even after my marriage I won't leave the habit.
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a single person can observe the privacy protocol, but once you are in love or start dating, you will want to share things with your partner, so I think you will loosen up a bit once you are entangled with someone, for now enjoy the privacy
Hehe. Who knows what will happen later. May be you are right also😅..
You are right about this post, some people will put patterns on their phones as if the world is coming to an end, there is how you can get that pattern even if you are an angel, thank God DNA is not free in Nigeria because many children will be fatherless and t orphanage home will be like a market.
i just pity those people spending and raising other people's kid because of their partner infidelity, as for me, i am doing a DNA test for all my children.
Guilt trip is perhaps one of the easiest to recognize, you can't have a straight forward conversation without arguments happening. And it's always portrayed that it is your fault :)
A lot of people fall for this trick and end up apologizing for doing the right thing
Me I don't know what to say when it comes to relationships and cheating, it has become a norm and most people even see it as a marathon😂
Well, it is very important for both to be loyal to each other but at the same time, especially on the men side, I think it's not possible for them to stay without cheating on their partner. Why is it so?
Burly the relationship expert. Lol preach bro😂
It is true that all the relationships of today are only above the meaning. After that, every person gets busy in his life, there is no loyalty left in the world anymore.