Self love should be a priority not an option

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Self love is one of the quality we must possess, how do we expect others to love us if we don't love ourself? Some people are so busy loving others that they totally forget they also need some loving and at the end, those who they were devoted to end up leaving them....

I did everything for her but she end up leaving me, what did i do wrong? you did everything wrong! you made her more beautiful for other guys to want her but totally ignored your own self, you become less appealing to her along the way and at the end, she couldn't help but abandon you for those who love themselves....Blame yourself!

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No matter what, always prioritize yourself because at the end of it all, only you is 100 percent sure you can't abandon yourself, is it even possible

Even though when i set a big goal for myself, i end up sacrificing my desire and want till i achieve the dream but once in a while forget all about dreams and treat myself well by going cloth shopping and dream does not stop me from visiting mama put to get myself a very nice meal, we only live once but once is just enough if we live our life to the fullest....

Aside buying personal stuff or eating good food, my life is pretty boring as i stay inside all day chatting and working, it is not boring to me though as i love it that way! but to others it may be a boring lifestyle...

The last time i had a nice time going out was with an amazing hiver @quduus1 and it was on last christmas day! he blogged about it today but then i will be blogging about it as well since that was my recent day out to have fun....

It was an outing we have planned before the exact day, so we already know where we were going and the time we are to meet and move.... It started around that 1 p.m and our destination was the shop rite around our vicinity....

This is actually my first time of going to one, we got there less than an hour and the first place we landed was at the virtual game as i have been longing to try it out for long and we eventually got a ticket for it!

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Me and my partner in crime did it but we didn't scream like those dramatic girls made it sound, so atleast that is off my to do list , we played basket ball shot and your's truly burl defeated fox but then those who are in charge of the game taught me a lesson too lol....

We played Ps 4 as well and as expected i discipline the fox there again lol.... We ate before we decided to leave as we still have work pending to do.... it was a fun filled day!

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One thing i realized after the outing was that it makes me more happy, and i felt i should do that more often ... Going out to socialize with others...

The memory of that day wil linger on till i create another memory similar to it and i would do that soon again...

Life is short, live it to the fullest so you won't end up regretting things you didn't do when you are old.....

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The investor sir! It’s nice seeing treat yourself to the best. Such is life sir!

And fox? I pity that guy. He is always trespassing. Glad you gave him some act of discipline

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lolz and i made sure to give him a beating of his life, seems that is not enough as he is already making mouth again, he needs more discipline😁

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😂 😂. He would I know people like him won’t succumb easily. 😂
Drum wey get water no Dey make noise, na empty barrel Dey make noise 😂

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yes dear and self-loves is not one being selfish

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at all, it is about taking care of oneself because at the end, we only have ourself

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Yeah, it is good to always prioritize ourselves before others. Giving ourselves the best care we could ever give.

I love myself dearly, I don't know about you?

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i love me too dear🎈🔥

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Lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣 taaaaaah Na lie lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I flog you for everything Lol 🤣😂😂😂😂

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see this one😏, expect more flogging next time lol

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I think its time to fix a hang out date with you as well...😂

You guys actually had fun at the time out with each other and times like this are very important. Appreciating yourself inspires you to want to win and earn more so you can give yourself a good life.

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there will definitely be a hang out in form of a meet up for hivers in lagos, i just don't know when but it will happen someday😊

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I hope so, I can't wait to meet everyone. It will happen someday, trust you are having a great day already.

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yea thanks my man, have a nice day too🎈

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Each time I visit your post I don't feel like leaving because of how educative it is.

At the end of everything, the only person we will have still standing by us is ourselves. We are the only ones that won't desert us, why then care less about us and love others more? Some persons can pay transportation fare for their friends, subscribe their phones while they are famished, they prefer to make others happy and leave theirselves to decay. This has been a big issue in my heart honestly because sometimes I fall a victim too.

But today you have shade more light on that dark part of my understanding, we must learn to make ourselves a priority too.

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i understand man, it happens to many people and their eyes only clear after those people they love more than themselves betray or leave them... but then we learn everyday.. Thanks for coming around

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Sometimes I feel it is good that we get betrayed by those whom we spend so much in neglecting ourselves so that we can learn.

You are welcome sir🥰

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Happy new year dear, been a while on the chain... A very long story tho...

We played Ps 4 as well and as expected i discipline the fox there again lol.... We ate before we decided to leave as we still have work pending to do.... it was a fun filled day!

Wow, this would have been so much fun if I had been with you guys. I play PES on my brother's laptop, and I'm a gamer too. Though I'm still an amateur, I should be able to discipline Fox as well. lol..

I assume you're doing well. It was pleasant reading from you; many thanks for sharing.

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oh! it crossed my mind to invite you but you have not been active on the blockchain so didn't know if you would have time for such an impromptu outing.. don't worry we can always fix another one with you going with us...Hope you have been good?

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happy new year and i am interested in that long story😊

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