One thing i won't do nor let anyone do to my child
It is only parent that can understand the unconditional love they felt for their children, even though we know but we have never felt it and we don't know why they go to extreme length to protect their kid when they see them treading the wrong path....
When we get injured, they feel the pain more than us because physical pain is nothing compared to the emotional and heart break they get when their child is hurt but again we will never understand that pain till we become a parent too....
Parent are small god on earth, in whom we can rely on, if the whole world deny, abandon, neglect, hate, despise us, these two will always support and give us hope that we are not alone no matter what, even if we are wrong, our parent will never let us be judged or sentenced, they are willing to sacrifice themselves for our happiness.. They are our true love and no love can beat the one our parent have for us....
My daddy was a gentle and friendly father to his kids so i have nothing to say about him than how good he is but you see my mum, she is fire for fire, i can't even count how many times i have received wire, cane and belt from her, so so uncountable but she has a reason for doing what she did.... She was actually grooming me to become a better person in life, even at those age, i never loved her less but i feared her cane....
I have written stories of how i love to play games and soccer and hardly stay indoor during my young age but i didn't include there was someone who was always searching for me with cane in her hand, someone who always burst me like a police officer when ever i am having my win streak in the game center that it even got to an extent that when i have a serious competition or bet going on, i have to tell a friend to stand as guard outside to help me monitor when my mum is coming...
There is one thing she used to do back then, if i offend her or go out when she doesn't want, she doesn't run or stress herself to catch me since we are going to sleep under the same roof, she will wait till late in the night when i enter my room and already feel relaxed, that is when she will come in with her cane and ask my brothers to excuse us, ah why why i thought i have been forgiven😥, this is when the serious flogging will start and she will do this till she is satisfied.
Well i am very stubborn and that doesn't stop me from committing the same offence the next day, it is fair that she also flog me, i can't do without football and games while she can't do without her cane lol...
The only issue is sometimes she doesn't come in the night, she comes early in the morning at dawn and use the cane to wake me up, dang! this is the part i hate the most and i would never do this to my kid or allow my wife to do this to my kid...
The reason why i hate this is because i won't have rest of mind, she could have just flog me in the night and let us be done with it, but having to think about her coming would give me sleepless night, imagine that anxiety, nervousness and pain of waiting i have to go through to be flogged and when i finally mistakenly sleep off, i ended up receiving lashes that causes an excruciating pain to my soul and body and brings me back to reality away from my sweet dreams...
It is okay to flog a child but do not let her/him wait for it, do it and let it be forgotten instead of giving him or her high blood pressure, so this is one thing i don't like and not going to happen to my kid....
I love my mum and that is her own way to discipline her children, just that my own way won't be like that.... Moreover a child that will become bad will still become bad regardless of being caned... I believed every child choose their path not because of the discipline but because of who they really are....
The freedom i so much cherished, when i left home and finally have it, i didn't make use of it to go around to play games or football, i didn't even like going out anymore, i got a job and became serious with my life.... Whenever i remember it, it kinda put a smile on my face, this is the freedom i always desire but when i eventually have it, i really didn't want the freedom anymore... Story Of Burl Life😁
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Haha, it's the way you are stretching this for me😂
That is one of the funny thing about freedom 🤣,
We crave it for so long that when we finally get them, we won't even use it.
When I was in boarding school that we were restricted from Going outside school, we always struggled to leave but here I am staying indoors all through without going anywhere and still not complaining 😂.
Your mum really did what she thought was best for you at that point and she has my respect.... She formed you to the better man you are today.
Great post
Haha, it's the way you are stretching this for me😂It is me that know how i suffered from her whips😁
When I was in boarding school that we were restricted from Going outside school, we always struggled to leave but here I am staying indoors all through without going anywhere and still not complaining😂.Such is life, as human we always crave for things we don't have and when we finally have them, we don't want them anymore lol
Your mum really did what she thought was best for you at that point and she has my respect.... She formed you to the better man you are today.I would admit she did her very best to groom me, but i was not destined to be a bad boy in this life too 😁
Hahaha.... No one was ever destined to be a bad boy
Situations and environment make more than 80% of that decision
Haha, an interesting read, your mother had to level up because of you guys stubbornness, but really early morning came, you guys must have worried her out, hopefully you child is not as stubborn as you were 😁
lolz, well i just wanted to enjoy my freedom and she won't let me have it, so it is my fight for freedom🤣
Hmm a child will always pick the trait of her/his parent...
My momma is very stubborn too so i used that to resemble her lol
Haha, I see
Hahaha 😂🤣🤣🤣😂
Your mummy is fire indeed ..lol
When you think she has forgiven you, you receive lashes... unexpected one at night 😅😅🤣😂
Looks like I will apply this method for my boys 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
better don't put fear in their mind🤣 since you have not been doing it before, it will take a toll on them if you start it now lol
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Spot on, bro 🔥🔥🔥I love this part and glad you agreed to this. Even if a child receives the best treatment and upbringing, he or she would still go his path because we all have a choice. Isn't it?
Omo! It was obvious you were so stubborn then just like my little brother then 😅😅😅 Mom never got tired of beating him too.
As for the flogging, my parents never did this but my dad's friend. Ha! I experienced this when I was living with them because of my academics in secondary school. This man had no mercy when it comes to giving unexpected 'koboko' flogging at night to his children. Well, he never beat me because till I left there, he cared for me as a stranger. Lol
Omo! It was obvious you were so stubborn then just like my little brother then 😅😅😅 Mom never got tired of beating him too.🤣🤣 how is he now? is he still getting beating or outgrown it too?
advantage of being a stranger, if not you would have chop koboko too lol, i have never experience being flogged with koboko too but those who did always state how painful that whip can be
Hahaha... Aburo is now 25 years already. Of course, he has changed. Lol
Even my dad never used koboko on us, why would someone do that? 😅😅
He only hanged it to scare us but that didn't stop us from being stubborn because we believed he wouldn't use that. His own were belt and wire 😂😂😂 he never used cane.
Seems our parents were good at beating us up at night.
My dad had a PHD in that kind of discipline. He won't even talk to you for misbehaving. But trust that you will receive some whipping at night.
lolz, that is their way
This is so funny.
Simple question; where you stubborn or not? 😂😂😂
Mothers seem to be the hot ones in the home.
Your mum did her bit. Her best. Just in the way she knows how to. And maybe what is important is that it was good enough. Maybe you'll change a little(or a lot) of her methods when you have your own kids.
Still, you'll be grateful for how well they raised you.
Well-done!
Simple question; where you stubborn or not?I just want to play😏
yea in most cases, the mother seems to be the one to be strict.. and yea she did great cos that is how she treated all her kids and it pays off....
so your mum didn't beat you? you were not stubbrn?👀
I was not stubborn o but, she beat me.
Who born you to stubborn for my mama? Na now I don stubborn small sef😂😂
Our mother's are disciplinary officers and they don't take nonsense.
My mom hates it when people prevent her from scolding us so she doesn't do it when people are around to plead for us but usually don't do that in the morning
I can tell how it feels to be woken up with cane, it can kill a child morale for the whole day so I agree with you that punishing a child at that time of the day is not cool especially when the child committed the sin a day before
yea not good at all, it even create fear in the kids and that can cause a trauma
strict mothers everywhere but it seems mothers of nowadays ain't that strict anymore xd cos the kids experiencing the beating back then are the new mothers and they know how it feels
Hahaha 😄. You made me laugh when you talk about how you receive cane from your mum. In any family where the mother is the quiet time, then you will notice that the the father will be kind of harsh. And this is also for the good of the kids. If everyone becomes calm and allow kids to do anything that they want and also how they want it, then there will be trouble for that home. Bros. The way you see your mum is the way my children see me. But even at that I happen to be there best friend.
Thanks for sharing.
you are right though, both parent must not be cool, one need to be a disciplinarian,
so you are also fire for fire for your kids lol, i believe someday they will outgrow that beating of yours but till then, they should bare it like i did😁
Hahaha 😄. Not that I even flog that much. But I just make sure that they don't just do whatever they feel like doing. You know kids and freedom. If you allow them, they can get themselves into big trouble. My husband is just like your father. Just do anything you want and he will just say something that don't even look like he is angry. But if I am there, they will have a little fear. Even at that I am more friendly to the kids. But bros, they are all grow up now. I have three of them in the tertiary institution. My last born is in SSS one.
Thanks and have a great day.
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣This kind of unexpected beating is usually very painful I can relate.
If mum and dad were very calm you would have been a spoilt child, thank God Ur mum was the hot one.
My dad was the hot one and he can flog water out of your bones, but my mum is very calm and sweet but she can support her husband eeehhhnmm.
If mum and dad were very calm you would have been a spoilt child🤣🤣
Maybe i won't have been a spoilt child , cos what a child will be cant be changed by flogging him, i have a friend that his parent do flog him even more than they flog me, but he still turn bad... It is all about the child mindset...
My dad was the hot one and he can flog water out of your bones, but my mum is very calm and sweet but she can support her husband eeehhhnmm.looks like the parent do plan it, one should be strict and the other should pamper lol, in your own case, your dad is the fire for fire... i pity you though cos as a man, that beating will be more painful xd
Omo the beating was painful oh .
But funnily enough my dad hates to see my mum beat us 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Omo the beating was painful oh .
But funnily enough my dad hates to see my mum beat us 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
"... She will wait till late in the night..."
Are almothers not the same? Lol. lYou are completely talking about my mum here. When you think everything is forgotten and you are sleeping soundly, then boom, the cane comes out. 😁
Growing up was fun though
most mothers of that time do this, luckily the new mothers don't do this anymore to their kids 😁
It was fun but that beating part is no fun😫
You story just had to put smile on my face as I'm just reminiscing on all what man went through while coming up. I really don't like that canning stuff as it somehow gives children low self esteem when it comes to better things they can do outside but when they remember that their parents may beat them when they would hear of it, they just have to stop it no matter how much they love it.
A child that wish to spoil will eventually do want will tag him with bad names no matter the amount of canes receive from their parents.
But I still think those flogging has a long way to go in a mans life because if parents didn't do that I really don't think if most of us would have achieved what we have today. Our parents are the best. We just have to give our children the best when ever they come.