If you have not started doing any of this things, please don't!
These things I am about to mention, It is rare to find someone who is not into any of them, some people are doing everything while some only pick one to do.
- Smoking
- Alcohol
- Masturbation
- Betting/Gambling
It is easy to get addicted to those things I mentioned above but very hard to get rid of the addiction.
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Why do people get so addicted to gambling? It is because they believed it is their shortcut and easy way to make it in life but in reality less than 1 percent of the world population made it from betting... If you calculate how much some people lost in Sportybet and other gambling dens, it is more than enough capital to help them start a good business that can flourish but there is this spirit that comes with betting, the moment you lose money, you will want to earn back what you loss and in the end, you will only lose more if you also win money from gambling, there is this urge to win more and at the end, you will lose everything again.
I used to be a gambler around 2010, I won 2000 naira which was the biggest amount I ever earned from betting that year, I stopped playing and left the place in the hope of using the money to buy good clothes the next day which was on Friday when coming back from school.
Unfortunately, the clothes seller didn't open that day and I went home with the money, I refused to go out on Saturday because I knew I would be tempted to bet, I could not resist the urge on Sunday but I only went out with 500 naira, to cut a long story short, I lost the 500 Naira to bet and ran home to take the remaining 1500 which I also lost to gambling, this is the story of most gamblers. The addiction is real but I was able to stop the moment I changed environment.
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There are many rumors surrounding masturbation, some people call it evil and that it lures bad spirits, and some say masturbating makes one lose their glory and they can never be rich but are all these true? I don't believe it is, your opinion may differ which is okay
Masturbation has its advantages and disadvantages in medical terms
It helps you to sleep well because of the hormone that you release after doing it, some people even like masturbating more than sex because they derive maximum satisfaction from pleasuring themselves rather than depending on the opposite sex. this is the reason why some married couples would leave their wife or husband in the room to masturbate in the bathroom.
It is a known fact that women are hard to please, in fact, 80 percent of ladies do not cum during sex because their men can't help them reach orgasm, the little that gets to orgasm level start from foreplay not just penetration, so if you are a man and you chose to ignore foreplay, you just want to enter the train and jump out while it is still moving, know the train is not happy with you. sex[penetration] alone can't make a woman cum, so ladies who are into masturbation might prefer that more than having it with a man.
The bad effect of Masturbation is that it can cause erectile dysfunction, the moment you start pleasuring yourself as a guy, your testosterone level will become low and you may not feel that hardness like before again when meeting with the opposite sex, and that is when she starts complaining she is not feeling you... Also, you become addicted and won't be able to stop yourself, you will be surprised to hear some people can masturbate as much as 7 times in a day, it is stage by stage lol.
As for the ladies, you become less interested in sexual activities with the opposite sex, imagine preferring masturbating when we have millions of guy who are willing to do it with you for free, stop that you hear? Also it increases your chance of getting infection and lastly that place is very delicate and putting hands in it all the time can harm it.
So if you are not yet into it, don't even start it and if you are into it and want to stop, it is hard but not impossible...
- Avoid being alone in the room because the pressure to do it increases to +100 when you are alone
- Don't watch porn or other erotic movies that might put you in the mood.
I won't say prayer because I don't believe it is anything spiritual, it is just an addiction like others. If smoking and gambling aren't spiritual, why is masturbation spiritual?
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Uhm we all know the slogans Smokers are liable to die young
so this one is even worse than the other two above because they can't damage your liver, as dangerous as smoking is, it also has its own advantage, it gives the smokers the confidence and soothing mind they need but the bad effect is worst...
Why endanger your life for a short time feeling.
Drinking alcohol is not bad until you start taking it in excess... people have committed crimes under the influence of alcohol and they blame it on the alcohol but the fact is alcohol just gives you the ginger to do what is on your mind, it takes away your reasoning and make you do those things on your mind without remorse.
It is rare to see someone that is not doing any of the four things mentioned above, you are guilty of one right? lol
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Is it possible to see a guy who isn't engaged in any of the activities above?
I don't think so, maybe 1 percent of the world's population, but why guy only? is it possible to see a lady not doing any of the activities?
Betting can really trap people into a cycle of losing more than they win.
big trap, it has ruined many lifes and it hasn't stop ruining life
Indeed brother, something for everyone youth or old people to avoid
I remember when I used to gamble, Sporty chop my money like mad😅😅😅
I was just trying to make money at all cost so I felt gambling was the next thing to do😅😅
I’m glad I no longer gamble though
lol, did you make that money?
For where?😅😅
I’m guilty of that gambling but I’m glad Jesus has taken control😅😅😅
I don’t want start talking abeg😅😅