Happiness is a state of Mind

Many people are in search of what was never lost, they are in search of happiness in the wrong place, Mr.A depends on Mrs.B to make him happy which could lead to a depressed soul and state of mind if Mrs.B does not have his time.

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We only need one person to make ourselves happy which is ourselves! love yourself and your happiness will be doubled as others will get attracted to you, people tend to love happy people and always want to be around them so they can also make them happy.

A lady told me she has been feeling sad since her boyfriend broke up with her and asked for my opinion on how to make herself happy, I told her this if you are unhappy because of a man, you need to be under another man to get back the happiness you lost

She didn't understand my statement so I had to break it down for her, When you are in a relationship, you create a lot of memories with your partner which makes you love them more if eventually, you break up with them, the memories remain intact, you miss those good days and they will give you sleepness night knowing the person who gave you such memory is gone.

The first step to forgetting them is wiping away their memories and the only way you can easily do that is by getting another partner who would show you love and create another sweet memory; that way, you will forget the one who broke your heart.

People would say, it is not advisable to get into a new relationship if you are still in love with your ex, this is right in a way, if you still love them and are not ready to move on, then stay away from another relationship because you will only be hurting the new partner but if you are done and sure you are ready to move on, then your best therapy is entering a new relationship where you are loved!

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In this life, we have two kinds of people, people who count their blessings and those who count their loss... If you are always worried about things he does not have rather than the ones he has achieved, happiness will be very far from you because as humans, our needs are insatiable, and no matter what we have, we will always want more.

If you want to be happy, live the moment, do the things you love, work hard but don't think too much about money, have big dreams but do not feel bad if you could not achieve them all, instead be happy for the ones you were able to smash, just let things flow and see how it will affect your life positively.

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