Bottled feeling is a slow poison - Let it out!
Have you ever found yourself in a very pathetic situation, you feel depressed but still bottled in all your feelings because you think people can not solve the problem making you feel that bad. At some point in life, you would feel down and distance yourself from others to heal...There are many people like this including me but recently I realized a problem shared is a problem half solved...
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As humans, we are prone to make mistakes at any point in our lives no matter how careful we are, it is inevitable, we were not born to be perfect.
Something happened to me recently. I won't say am depressed but I felt bad a lot for such a silly mistake, I started to tell my loved one the mistake I made and I found their words of comfort soothing to my soul and I no longer feel bad again, their word breathe the air of inspiration in me and I learn that whatever is mine won't pass me by and the one that did was never meant to be mine in the first place.
Sadly some people have committed suicide after days/weeks or even months of being depressed because they could not bear it anymore and t felt that death is the only way out for them, if only they have confided in one or two people who could have comforted them and breathe into them words of comfort and inspiration, maybe those who committed suicide after months in depression would still be alive.
One of the stories I heard was about a crypto guy who is into trading... He would collect money from people to help them trade and the profit would be shared equally between him and the investor.
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One day, on his way home he got arrested by the police, and all his pleas to get him released fell on deaf ears, he was begging them to release him because he has a trade opened, he got released the next day but unfortunately for him, by the time he got home to check on his trades, he has been liquidated and thousands of dollars gone!.
Both his money and the one that belonged to those he helped to trade were gone and the guy didn't waste time before he drank poison, he committed suicide because he felt his life was over, where would he start from and how would he repay those whose money got liquidated in the trade, he found an easy way out, but maybe if he had discussed the matter with one of his friends or family members, they could have change his mind but he didn't leave that chance... Oh well he died and those whose money he lost moved on, if he was alive, they won't let him live in peace, no one fight with the dead.
Moral of the story is to always share your problem with your loved ones, even if they can't find a solution to it, they would comfort you with their words which would inspire you to move on or give you hope that tomorrow will set things right.
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Once the mistakes don't let us keep great as we were, explaining it to another person ls right thing to do, and lt was how you get back yourself.
You did great for telling how you feels to your love ones, a person do not have to think he/she will always be right.
lt ls better to make make mistake and learn than not learning anything, greetings bro.
yea, that is right... when the deed is done, we must find a way to move on... Failure makes us better as long as we do not give up
Thank so much bro, you said lt right, happy weekend.
This is exactly me 🥺 I am not an outspoken type of a person merely because I don't want to bother other people with my problem... I sometimes isolate myself.
I felt inspired while reading this and I really wanted to be brave like you.
I am like you too, dont like to burden others with my problem but the thing is sometimes, when we feel talking to others might ease the burden or pain, then it is better to let it out especially to those we trusted
Thank you @burlarj for being a kind person.
Sending you an Ecency curation vote!
I think sharing is not bad, especially for those who are emotional as it makes them feel better. Some of my friends also share their worries with me and I try to comfort them and advise them if necessary and it's helpful not to be depressed.
Oh no, making decisions at the heat of the moment is always a bad idea. I think we have this tendency as humans to rush into solving our problems right the moment they happen instead of giving it some time for the solution to reveal itself.
yea that is also human nature
Such a situation is in every man's life because there are many problems in a man's life, there are tensions, he has to take care of his family, so a man who is what he is, never loses his mind and works hard day and night. And this is the effort to be successful and think about the happiness of the people living with you.