Being Independent is a criteria that should be considered in relationships

The world would be better if people always put themselves in others' shoes before they act on every decision and start hating.

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There is this poor guy who has nothing and still lives with his parent, he has no job and is still being fed by his parent even though he is old enough to be independent, he is 27 years old.

There is also this working-class lady, she is beautiful and dresses elegantly which makes guys fall in love with her at first sight, the guy above saw the lady and also felt something for her which is not a crime or bad but the only issue is that he acted on it by asking her out.

The lady turned him down and he started hating on her, but what does he expect and why is he hating, if he was the lady, would he accept himself? definitely no! so why would he want others to accept him if he can't do the same, rather than hating on her, he should step up and double his hustle so he can become independent and have the woman he desire.

Many people see relationships as a joke, some enter relationships for fun while some don't even know why they are in a relationship, they just want to be in one so people can acknowledge that they are also dating.

The dating pool is so messed up, that it has become a trade by barter where one party gives sex and the other gives money, so the absence of one makes most relationships crumble. we are in a world where it is hard to tell who truly loves you because people find themselves in relationships now due to situations.

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As a man before you ask a lady out for a relationship, you must have something going on for you, the way it is designed, the man provides while the woman becomes submissive to him, if the money and your duty is missing, it would be difficult to earn the respect you deserve.

I believe as a man, if you are still trying to survive, stay away from girls and relationship and build yourself first, do not enter a ship that will take away the little you could have invested and double.

The only time a man can know the kind of woman he marries is when he is broke, that is when you will find out if your loyal and submissive wife will remain that way or become something else you don't know, I pray no man experience such though and poverty is not a thing to test someone with.

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