Week #221/ Forever and ever 33
With my cousins, I'm on the right side
In my opinion, all the ages through which we pass have their charm; because each one of them is accompanied by different experiences and experiences. Besides, each one of our years brings something special to our existence, unrepeatable moments, new experiences, we meet new people, we perpetuate relationships or even end some of them.
I remember that, in conversations among friends, we used to ask ourselves this same question: what would be my ideal age and what would I want to be maintained over time? Said differently, but for the case, it would be the same question exposed by our friend @galenkp and my answer would be my 33 years old. Because at that age, I felt that I was in the fullness of my life, because in those years I already had the maturity to know what I wanted and how I wanted it, worth the redundancy; physically I was at my most optimal level, I had the energy and vitality to the fullest, at that time I felt that I was at my highest level in all aspects.
I was already married and divorced, I was starting a new stage of my life, I was already a mother and I had already obtained many things, in all areas of my existence, I had experienced many others, so I felt that in many things I had already covered half of my way or at least I thought so at that time; but then I realized that now I still had to continue learning and experiencing... But anyway, I close my eyes and I see myself dancing with a group of friends or going out to exercise. I see myself with my daughter in a movie theater enjoying a girl's afternoon, free, independent, master of the world, of my time.
I have very good memories of that year and many not so happy ones, because it coincided with my divorce and all that it entailed, going through that experience, moving, new school, new friendships, but it also started my rebirth as the phoenix and that was the best thing. After all this, I felt so good about myself, that years later, between conversations and anecdotes, some memory of that specific year has always come to the top, some trip, some reunion with friends or, simply, when I felt safe in the midst of all that I lived.
And although that year was very special and I would have wanted it to last in time; I was aware that my stages had to continue, apart from the fact that time does not wait for us, I was aware that I had to move forward and I proved in my own skin, that every year that we add to our life counts and that it is a blessing and that all our years have their beauty, that I would not change at all every day that is given to me, with its good sides, with its bad sides, because all are necessary to build us on this path that we do not know where it will go, so let's enjoy every moment we have ahead of us.
This is my participation in Weekend-Engagement topics: WEEK 221, greetings friends!
The photograph is from that time, when I was 33 years old.
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