Getting Married To Someone With A Kid.

Nothing is ever right until it happens to you and you then admit it is right, lol. If I wasn’t in love with a man with kids, I won’t have supported this motion.

Marriage can be a complicated issue sometimes especially when one party has a kid before marriage. Would you consider marrying someone with children?

In relationships, it’s always good when it’s without a third party but when a third party sets in, it then feels like there is an intruder in the relationship. I wouldn’t blame people who mistakenly had kids when they are not ready and this does not mean they should never fall in love anymore.

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Can I really date or marry someone who has a kid before?
To be very honest, there is totally nothing wrong with this but it depends on our mentality especially we Africans. When someone has a child, the general belief is that the child may try to frustrate you out of the relationship and much talks like that.

Could this be true? Why not? I’ve seen cases where a child comes between his parent and step parent so such marriage may not last but let’s not forget that people with kids need love and their child should not stop them from doing that.
As someone who is dating someone with a child, the first thing to do is get along with the person’s child. Within that period, you get to know the kind of person that child is so that when you both eventually get married, you wouldn’t be having problems.

Secondly, I will make sure I don’t fake things. If I so much love the parent of the child but don’t like the child, I will rather walk away and that’s the best thing to do instead of trying to manage something that cannot be fixed.
These two tips aren’t enough but a way to keep you going if you ever find yourself in the situation of falling in love with a parent.

Can I be a stepmother or father and does it seem like the right thing to do?

Is there anyone who ever wrote it in the Holy Book that being a stepfather is bad or good? Just do you and do the best thing that you can. People who have kids need to be loved and I think what works best is for people who have kids to get married to each other so the feeling about the whole thing will be mutual.

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But if I find myself in love with a person who already has a child, I’d surely embrace the child. Kids don’t bite so dating one who has a child shouldn’t be something I can totally say no to and yes, I can marry someone who has kids.