Marriage: A Financial Perspective and Personal Choice

Getting married is not an easy task, you have to be prepared for many things, the first of which is the expenses involved. Some people even invest their entire life's savings in the marriages of their children. And some marry by taking loans. But everyone wants to get their children married. Whether he is rich or poor. Later, it does not matter how their marriage is going, the parents just have to reduce their burden in some way.

I am not married yet, but with age, my family members are troubling me. Many of my colleagues are married and some have even had children. I have no regrets about this but I believe that you should not step into a simple life until you are financially connected. Because I believe that after marriage, responsibilities increase a lot and expenses also increase. If you are not ready for all these things then I believe that you too should not decide on marriage. No matter how much pressure your family members are putting on you, you have to keep in mind that this life is yours and your future will be decided according to the decisions you make.

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I have attended many weddings and people spend a lot of money just for one day. It is fine for those who have money, but those who do not have money, these days also spend a lot unnecessarily just to show off. And this is not right here because if you are spending your own money or borrowing it to show off to others then it would be foolish. If you are capable of doing all this then there is no problem. Because many millionaires spend billions of money on the marriage of their children. And the marriage of some is settled in thousands only. Nowadays, even a small birthday party can cost lakhs of rupees, so you can guess how much a wedding would cost.

And if you are an Indian then the expenses increase a bit more, because at the wedding you have to buy jewelry, clothes, and many other things and arranging a hotel and arranging people's stay is a lot of work. When my elder brother got married a few years ago, I saw how much was spent. I consider myself lucky that my father also understands how to do everything and with his help, everything was handled well.

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Perhaps this is also one of the reasons why I don't want to do the chest right now because it costs a lot and no one accepts it these days without inviting relatives and organizing a party. Times are changing. I have seen many people who just get married in court marriages or temples and then have a party and some don't even have a party. This is also good in a way, it can save a lot of money and we can use the money for other things. What do you think about this?

But everyone's thinking is not the same, many people want to celebrate their marriage in a memorable way. They are not even worried about expenses. It is good for those who can spend, but I have also seen that many children, after winning over their parents, make them spend more than they can afford. It does not make any difference to him in terms of time, but when everything is wrapped up, he realizes how much has been spent.

If even after that the marriage does not work out, then there is even more regret. Nowadays, it is a daily occurrence when the bride runs away with all her belongings and disappears the very next day. And how many men, despite being married, have illicit relations with other women? And the woman is also married as well. So overall it has become very difficult to trust someone blindly these days. I am not saying here that everyone is the same but still people can see by seeing.

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It's not that I don't like girls, but I don't want to get myself into the situation right now. I first want to strengthen myself financially, and for that, I need at least a few more years of time, let's see if I get another girl or not, then I will know. And I am also not one to spend much on my wedding. I have thought about whether I will marry you in the temple or have a court marriage and organize a small party, that too for close people. A lot of money can be saved by this, it is not necessary that you have to spend lakhs and crores of rupees to get married, it can also happen with less money and as time passes, people are calling the old customs. I don't know whether it is right or not, but things have to change with time, what do you think?

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