Embracing Change

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2023 has been a great year I must say but then there have been days and situations that I have encountered that were terrible to me. Regardless I would say 2023 has been cool to me. I wasn’t able to achieve most of my goals but trust me when I say I was able to learn new things, visit new places, and meet new people. I have met people that I kept wishing I could take back the hands of time, I wouldn’t want to meet them again.

I have learned so many lessons from this year and like the saying goes “experience is the best teacher” These lessons have taught me more about life and made me stronger. Which I don’t regret at some point.

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One of the lessons 2023 has taught me is to Avoid Trusting People easily. This year I made a grievous mistake of trusting people which led to me being scammed. I met someone and we became friends, then I had to lend her money when she was in a difficult situation but in the end, instead of getting my money back, I got blocked from all her social media platform. I felt so stupid and down that day because I felt used even if at that point I was just being a friend that offered help.

Stop Procrastinating, in 2022, if there is one thing I did so well, it was procrastinating, I felt really lazy going about my goals and certain things, as I would always procrastinate about every little thing. But joining this blockchain I came to understand that there was no use in procrastinating as that was slowly going to get me ruined. So In 2023, I learned not to procrastinate to avoid unforeseen circumstances.

Early 2023, I was in a phase where I felt things weren’t working and everything I was doing wasn’t making sense. At that point, I felt like giving up as it was so frustrating and I was losing hope. But as I went on, I had to be my own motivation and decided to move on from feeling like I wasn’t making any effort to trying to see the good in the world. I was able to learn that staying motivated is one way to progress and I tried to work by it. I know I am not where I want to be yet but I can see that I am on the right path.

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Lastly, if there is one lesson I am certain I got from 2023, Is that I need to prioritize my happiness. Stay where makes you happy, go where you would be happy, mingle with people that make you happy, and finally do what makes you happy. That way I always get to have a smile on my face and live peacefully. I am thankful for this year and everything I was able to learn. These things are helping in my growth and I am super happy I experienced every emotion and every situation.

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22 comments

It’s unfortunate you learnt this the hard way but it’s never good to put your trust in a human being.

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You’re right, humans are so unpredictable.
Well thank Goodness. Thank you for stopping by

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You look so stunning, dear 😍. And you are right, trust shouldn't come easily, and I am sorry you got scammed, but that doesn't mean you are stupid. You are a good person.

Hello dearest fashionable dreemer. Happy Wednesday 😊. It is another day we ought to be grateful because being alive is a dream of many. Stretch your limbs and rise from bed, yeah... I do know Winter/Harmattan has grace us, but it is happening all for Christmas, so let the Christmas spirit lead you. I waltzed in from #dreemport, for I am an amazing #dreemer. An awesomely made #dreemerforlife.

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Oh my dearest Balikis, my favorite dreemer☺️ Thank you for stopping by, I really appreciate your kind words.

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My dear trust people is the last thing i will do there is nothing bad in learning from our mistake trust have show me pepper i will never trust anyone

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Everything happens for a reason they say, I believe that no matter how ugly a situation might be, it came into place for a reason. of a truth this year was rough but thank God for experience, I hope we stick to the lessons.

#dreemerforlife

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Yes, we just have to. Thank you for stopping by☺️

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I understand how it feels to be betrayed by someone you trusted but it is all part of life. This are the kind of lessons we learn as we grow older but hopefully that wouldn't influence your ability to be kind to others next time.

Procrastination is the greatest hindrance for growth and progress, I'm glad you were able to figure out how to cope with it.

Each and everyone of us have had moments when we feel nothing is going our way but the good news is we will always find a way to get over it because self pity does not achieve anything.

I wish you success in all your endeavours and I hope this self evaluation you have done will continue to yield positive result in your journey towards greatness

Pop in from #dreemport
#Dreemerforlife

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I love that you read with so much care and was able to drop something which is of great value to me. I really appreciate. Thank you for stopping by ☺️

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I didn't read, it's the photo I got glued to, I stared for almost an hour 😆

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😂😂😂😂 Kingsley please not here

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My friends used to remind me always to prioritize myself and my happiness first because i happen to be one that gives out so much i don't have nothing left to feed me emotionally, it is good to prioritize your happiness

I must say i love your work appearance too, well written, nicely marked down, it was a pleasurable read, thanks for sharing

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I must say i love your work appearance too, well written, nicely marked down, it was a pleasurable read, thanks for sharing

Thank you so much for your words of encouragement, I really appreciate and thank you for stopping by.

Your friends are super right, always prioritize your happiness.

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Really nice photo dear 🥰 loving it

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Thank you so much☺️

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You're most welcome, you're definitely my new Hive friend

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Awwwww thank you so much, I really appreciate.

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Trusting people is what I don't do often, before I can trust someone the has to meet some of my standards first to enable me to trust in the person.

Besides you look beautiful in that pic

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I was able to learn that this year. You are right about the not trusting people easily.

Thank you Tari for the nice compliment ☺️

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