Thing's I won't and can't do

In life, there are things that ain't worth doing or experienced. There are things you wouldn't wanna do too coz of past experiences. Most persons have figured these things out in their life's and I'm a part of them.

Divorce
In our society today, we have so many failed marriages with their different reasons mist of which are, my partner cheated, love left the relationship or due to financial crisis, all these break my heart and I don't want to be part of it.

A relationship where love doesn't exist can never last, and this can result to breaking up in just few months of dating or marriages. A Nigerian actor who just got married on June divorced his wife last month being October. The reason is because, mist relationships where founded on lust, selfishness and want therefore, when the individual finally gets what they desired, the become tired of such relationship. This is why it is necessary to understand your feelings, develop them more before making any decision.
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Growing up with an experience of a broken home has thought me the loneliness, anger, tears, wishes and jealousy that I wouldn't want my kids to experience. A broken home most times, may not affect these parents anymore as they are done for, but the kids are the victims who have to suffer this the most. Especially when one parent decides to get married again as the attention becomes divided.

This is why I'll have to be careful as I'm scared and don't want to make any carless decision that may make me end up with no choice but divorce.

Taking hard drugs and alcohol
I've had very butter experiences with these two which did not end well.
Growing up, I wasn't always allowed to go out and I sure wasn't pleased with that. This made it easier for me to do what my classmates did as I saw it as something new and I wanted to try. Back in secondary school, I always noticed that some my class mates would always stay back after school dismissed and in a particular day in SS2 after school dismissed, I decided to stay back to know what's up and indeed I knew what was up as I could feel myself go up on that day.

 I was introduced to what they called AZ and was so curious to know what it felt and tasted like. The moment i took one breathe in with no experience, it was not a good experience as i started coughing so hard that I threw up and I went home with my eyes very red. Since that day, i was no longer curious, i have gotten the answer i needed, health is wealth and i am not ready to jeopardize my health for the way whatever they took made them feel.

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My first day of taking alcohol was even worst as I ended up in a hospital. On that particular day, I was being tormented with menstrual cramps and I was adviced to take alcohol that it's percent was high as it'll wo k faster that way and I foolishly obeyed. After a very long drink from the glass, I wasn't able to go home but I still had to go home and in my way, I was about to cross the main road but I couldn't really see properly and immediately I attempted to cross, I was hit by a car. I still have many bruises as this event happened last year and I'm greatful to God that I'm still alive.

These are at the top of my list on what I won't do. Thanks for reading guys ☺️