impact of social media and chatting. My experience part 1.(benefits).

I love to think that social media (chatting) is a vital aspect of life,(, believe me or not).
I know most persons must have heard about how chatting is great but I just wanna share how social media (chatting) has impacted my life in more than a thousand ways☺️

So many people around me, especially my mum, would remind me daily that I'm addicted to my phone and I can't deny or argue with them as It's not necessary. I can do without my phone though but when I've got no reason to, why should I?

I can decide to go on and on on how social media and chatting has influenced me but I'll just go straight to my point. Social media has exposed me to learning so many things that I couldn't learn on my own and it has brought so many beautiful and wonderful personalities to my life. Well, that's what I'm gonna be talking about today so, be ready to read 😁.

Thinking about it now, most of my cherished relationships, memories and sadness has come from people I met on social media through chatting. As a kid who wasn't really free to go out and make friends physically, I made my friends online thorough chatting and video calls. Don't get me wrong though, I'm not socially awkward, but I can be rated a 6 ( that's quite good right?😹). I just find it hard to automatically become so social and free with someone. At first, I do the listening but as time goes on, we gotta switch places as I have to unveil my true self😹 .Sometimes, when I think about how I got into conversations with these friends, I can't help but laugh because, there where times I was rude, times they made me feel bad and times where I laughed to a point I need air.

I know we all have a lot of social media friend we hope to see someday but probably because if distance if availability, it keeps getting crashed. There are persons I see and admire online maybe because if their posts, looks or writing's and I wish we could be friends.
Right now, I just can't wait to see two of my friends I met in social media physically. Their names are Jayson and precious, they have this ability to make you feel happy with just little words and a smile☺️. I haven't met anyone so thoughtful, loving,funny, kind like Jayson and precious has a way to always please you, right now, they're my confidants and best buddy's😁

      Social media has influenced my business as I don't have to own a store or stay at a particular place to sell, I just display or post them and chat with friends who'll help me send across and boom it's all good. 

Well, contrary to what most persons say about chatting being harmful it detrimental to them and their commination skills, it has been of higher b benefits to me. Not being able to boldly express myself physically, it's more easier to actively chat and express myself and this builds up my courage physically too.
Some persons may find the difference weird when I chat and talk physically as I am not very free physically except when I've built up a relationship with you. I feel more free when chatting and therefore, if you don't like emoji, stickers or Gif's you'd just have to bear.

While my comportment shows introversion, social media and chatting unveils my ambivert nature and in turn, helps me explore natural proclivity and personality. Talking about that, I remember one time I had to go for lectures and I didn't know what to wear, I had to call a friend through a video call who was a crazy fashionista 😹 and she chose my dress for the day. That was a big time help, now imagine if there was no social media 😩Lol. But just as social media and chatting has it's own advantage s to me,it has it's disadvantage s but that'll be a discussion fir another day.

**Pictures where taken from friends with their full permissions. **

Thanks for reading and visiting my blog once more guys☺️ I'll love to know about your experience with social media positively too in the comment section.