It is complicated.

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Take the complications, rules, shoulds, musts, have tos, and so on out of your life. By uncomplicating your life and removing the trivial pursuits that occupy so much of it, you open a channel for the genius within you to emerge.
Wayne Dyer

There is this complicated feeling about life that has to do with people because of seeing life.

Life is beautiful but we are what makes it complicated. Have you seen life from a child's perspective? How do they act in it, telling their friend, "I won’t play with you" and still go ahead and play with the same friend?

We all know life isn’t a bed of roses because even the rich cry, but our inability to come to terms with this makes life complicated.

We expect so much from life and the people in it that we have high hopes that things will work well. There is no wrong in being positive but we should learn to look at the negative aspect of it and get a backup plan and an additional backup plan just to be on the safe side.

I wrote a fictional story about someone suffering from dementia here where Mary stood by Jack even with life complications, she understood and stayed with him nonetheless. If you’ve come in contact with a patient suffering from dementia you will understand better.

I did hear news some days back about a lady who committed suicide by diving into a lagoon which was the same thing a man did last month, which prompts this question, does suicide truly worth it? Does it answer our endearing questions that many seem to have found answers to..

It is unhealthy to see people choose suicide and make life a complicated one for the people left behind. We find people committing this act with some leaving a note that life complications pushed them toward this and they couldn’t bear the pain that comes with it.

These people are our loved ones, those we know, and those close to the people we know. They could have been helped right? Not everything is money. But as I mentioned earlier that we are what make life complicated with our actions toward some things and people.

What will it take us to help out or lend a helping hand when we can? But we find some with the mentality that they suffered to attain the given position and whoever wants to attain it must go through the same suffering.

Everyone has the right to their opinion as there is no entitlement here but is it worth it? I know some people when given things freely end up not doing things rightly, but hey! You did your part, right?

I have been a hustler all my life which brought me to Hive I began hustling at a very young age, and I was privileged to work under a Ghanaian woman, a privilege because of what I learned from her. Her response toward things makes me have a high respect for her.

This woman lived a tough life and battled out of them, I witnessed some of her life-threatening battles and she could have made life unbearable for those around her instead she was always ready to help as she didn’t want anyone to go through the things she did and I admire that about her, her resilient spirit toward life complication is worth emulating.

We all pray that our children never get to live the life we lived and that is why we work hard each day so that we can give them a better life, the life our parents couldn’t give us because of certain circumstances that prevented them.

Why not live life carelessly and not prepare for our future which will have the presence of our children in it? It is something we may choose to do if we intend to instead, we work hard to make life less complicated for them. Then why not do the same for a friend who you know desperately needs it? Why not help with our words instead of killing them? Why not make life less complicated for people around us even when it wasn’t nice to us?

Life is beautiful but it isn’t nice to anyone it is said that beauty is pain. What positive thoughts do you have for those who are hanging on the last thread and how do you intend to help?

Thankfully Hive has been a great help to people all around, I have heard stories and also seen some make it from writing here. One is the story of our beloved @xplosive when I saw a post written by @alt3r about him with the link here I was moved, touched, and prayed that things go well with him.

You never know who is reading or listening, safe a life today as suicide isn’t an option and life isn’t as complicated as we take it.

Have you read this post on the illusion of saving by people? Click here to drop in your thoughts, also you can listen to my Podcast on Love or Suicide on Anchor, Spotify, and any other media of your choice. Below is Spotify and Anchor link, and you can also start your podcast show too for the Napodpomo 30 days challenge or listen to them by contacting @epodcaster or @dreemsteem.

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Still yours truly,
Balikis.

Thanks for reading.

Peace be unto those who crave it and more to those who chase it away