Romantic stories or movies are great entertainment, but not a relationship user manual.
Romantic stories and movies are entertaining, but some people want their relationship lives to be like the characters in the movies or stories, which can lead to a distorted relationship.
There is nothing wrong with reading stories or watching romantic movies, but many people today use them as a guide in their relationships, which has led to a misunderstanding of what a relationship and love should look like.
Many individuals are single today or have ended their relationships because they expect their partners to act like characters in romantic movies or stories.
This makes me remember what happened to a friend of mine last year. There is no time that I remember how the relationship ended that I won’t laugh or make jest of it.
He used to date a girl who expected him to act like most of the characters she saw in Korean love movies.
Long story cut short, she ended the relationship because my friend couldn’t act like what she expected.
People who use romantic movies or stories to judge what their relationship should look like often get disappointed and give up when they don’t get what they expected.
However, it is always difficult for these types of people to face reality because they often wish their personal relationships could be like the ones in romantic movies or stories. This act has caused many individuals to lose people that truly love them.
To avoid losing genuine love, one needs to get rid of the mentality of wanting to put some of the love scenes seen in romantic movies or stories into practice.
Furthermore, romantic movies or stories can negatively influence the way people view relationships. although one also gets useful knowledge from watching romantic movies or reading stories.
In conclusion, it is best that people understand that romantic movies or stories are designed to entertain the viewers or readers and not a manual for relationships.
This is the most important part of this post to me.
Many ladies, especially the Korean movies viewers usually end up comparing their relationship to a movie that was designed to entertain people.
Those kinds of relationships eventually crashes!
I really can't why you ll begin to compare your partner to a TV star.
You are comparing someone who innocently loves you to a professional who is trying to fake all the emotions and practically following a written story.
It's sad for the friend who had to end a relationship because of this but really these things are happening.
As in ehn.... so true!
Those people that ended their relationships should be given an award of the comedian of the year😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lols…
They really deserve the award😂
😂😂
So he didn't get what he wanted or she wanted more.
Can I be real, same thing applies when pps get addicted to pornography too.
When they have sex, they start expecting what they saw on screen but.. the won't find it.. leading sexual dissatisfaction..
This may be a bit off topic.. for another day heheh
You are so right about trying not to put what you saw in romantic movies into real life practice.
This is exactly what a lot of people do and they get bad results because unfortunately their partners are not well trained actors
Those movies they watch where directed and produced by people who have been selected and auditioned with their voice and their physical features and they are actually following a well written story which is aimed at advertising either a product or a culture.
Unfortunately many of us buy the idea and hope to use it on fellow human beings.
Somewhat wicked but I must say it's a trade of culture.
I just hope people will get it straight one day
Money is the engine. People for the love of money write stories depressed people want to here. But sane people stayed glued and got prepared to get depressed. That's the cycle.
That’s true
Indeed... We have to make sure we don't place unrealistic expectations on our relationships so we don't get disappointed.
Thank you for sharing this with us.
It’s my pleasure.
Thanks for reading