He accused me of stealing his money when I didn't.
Alot of accusations here and there,I won't just be sharing mine but also my siblings own too.
You know this things happen alot in the family but funny enough I don't really have much of accusations from my parent but I have accused my siblings very well, sometimes i later realized it was not them.
The main reason why my parent don't often accuse me of anything back then is because I was a good girl from when I was young,I don't over do things or do things they asked me not to do. Especially the females in my house but you see the males,they are the most stubborn people in the family,they will always cross their boundaries and even deny doing things even when they did it.
I can remember two now,and that's the only two I can remember , when I just finished my ss3,I never wanted to have a boyfriend then but I met this particular guy and we became friends,he made his intentions known to me,we later started dating,he was the most cool headed guy I have ever met and very responsible.
So this particular day he came home during vacation because he was schooling in OAU(obafemi awolowo university) so he said he wanted to see me after some months,he actually did,we met and his perfume was marrddd,he hugged me and that was how my body caught the perfume,my clothes were scenting and when I got home,I rushed inside my room but my mum came out and was like who owns this perfume that is smelling,and mind you we don't use perfume then,I removed my clothes yet my body was still smelling,she said who did I meet,I said nobody,I denied it ,she just let it pass because I know she knew I hugged somebody that's why my body was smelling the person's perfume.
She didn't want to attract the attention of my dad because if it was my dad that knew I'm already a dead meat then.
Another one is when I didn't take my dad's money and he said I did,so he gave me his trouser to wash,I actually washed some of his clothes that day,and I didn't even check his pockets so when his clothes got dried he checked the pockets of his trouser and didn't see his money,he said I took it and I denied it because I did not,I said he was sure because he kept the money in his pocket,my mum was trying to tell him that I can't take his money and I'm not like that but he wouldn't listen,he was checking through his books when he saw the one thousand naira he was looking for,he probably kept it there without remembering that he did when he was reading,my dad always read different spiritual books and inspirational books,so he might have kept it there,my mum was now like "can you imagine now I told you she has never stolen before and you know it" but sincerely that day my dad did not believe that I did not take the money even when he saw it inside his book but he didn't say anything afterwards.
After that I learned that no matter what I will never take his money,I will continue to be the good girl I have always been,I don't want to disappoint anyone.
so about my siblings
Another one is when I accused my younger brother of taking my money,he was like what's this now,I did not take your money don't disturb me,I kept taunting him that he took it,I later found the money somewhere else,I was now feeling bad that accused him wrongly,I was sad,I shouldn't have,I apologized to him and he started doing shakara but that was how we resolved it.
And I decided to stop accusing him if I didn't see him doing that thing,it's better to just ask rather than accusing someone.
Alot more happened but this is where I'm going to drop my pen.
Thanks for reading 🍅
I would have loved it if it were your dad that noticed the perfume.... because why you go hug person? Lol😄.
Interesting article 🙌
😂😂😂Thank God it wasn't my dad o,but it's a long time now sha...
Lol🤣.
I know you're a BIG girl now and can hug, peck and kiss anyone now... in the presence of your dad sef
Lol,abi now 😂😂, though my dad is late now but if he is still alive I can't o,in his front keh when I'm not married yet,he will reject it ni
Lol🤣.
I understand sha.
I don't fully agree with that statement because it depends on family members. In my family, I haven't seen anyone treat differently because of gender.
I have never faced any situation like you faced in second incident in my life. Maybe I am lucky.
No one is treated differently in my home,I don't think I mentioned if anyone is treated differently but I said the males are the most stubborn ones and I'm still standing on that.....you might not be really stubborn but you might be a little...
I don't agree with this statement. In case of stubborn, I think there is nothing to do with gender.
I can say female are more stubborn than man.
To be honest, it's a controversial topic which will never end😅.
😂😂😂 females keh,no ooo
We are not stubborn
As I said it's controversial topic and it will never end. 🤣🤣
Normal o,it won't 😁😌
I really laugh so hard after going through these lines. Hahaha! But I object this stance because I am also a male and I don't find anything stubborn . You can say man have strong determination they do what they want to do.
I can understand how one feels after come to know that one falsely accused someone. Such kind of things often happens in family. Stay happy lady 🍷 happy weekend :)
I know you will object because you are a guy,it's normal 😂, one really feels bad after been accused.
The scent of perfume can expose someone and there is no way you could hide from it. Lol
Also, it is good when you have someone defend and vouch for you like your mom who knew you didn´t take your Dad´s money.
It did expose me that day.
Abi.... she's my super woman,Lolsss
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