HOW LONG DID IT TAKE FOR YOU TO BE COMFORTABLE UNDRESSING IN FRONT OF YOUR SPOUSE
How long did it take for you to be comfortable enough to undress in front of your husband because I found out personally that it took me time to adjust to being naked in front of my husband and even till now I'm still battling with it 😅 but I believe I'll get there one day 😂
So anyhow, I decided to reach out to some of my married and engaged to be married friends to tell me about their own personal experiences, most of them Gave me the permission to use their pictures and some weren't comfortable with it so I'll be posting their replies here on the platform along with their beautiful pictures that I got permission to post (ps. I asked for permission to post it here on the platform and they were okay with it)
The first person on my list Is:
GLORIA and this was her response:Didn’t take long and it wasn’t an issue at all. You know every one has insecurities with their bodies, your partner is the one you should feel the safest with
Trust me he’ll love it more when you’re that free with him,I remember when I was feeling insecure with my back rolls It’s that time hubby will come and rub and kiss it the most.
IROU:It did not take long at all Because most times when I come out for the bathroom he cleans me up with my towel most times
DEBORAH: Well for me it was never an issue. At first I was shy to be undressed around my husband but then he didn't allow me to feel shy and all but then things changed and although I am not shy to be naked around him, I don't just feel comfortable anymore. I try to be dressed up around him even though it's skimpy and what have you, I must have some sort of covering
SANDRA:There is nothing to be ashamed of you making love to man you're legally married to? I got comfortable From our wedding nite oo 😂
After going through what my friends had to say I then came to the conclusion that When you have issues with self acceptance, You will dislike undressing in front of others. It happens mostly to people that were thought to shame their nakedness. Ladies let's all learn to embrace and love our body So that we can freely flaunt it in front of hubby.
Sometimes it might be even be a mental/emotional/ self esteem issue and you might need healing to purge herself of whatever information you have in your soul that fuels you to feel that way and replace it with healthy ones.
It will only take a mere passage of time to achieve it but you can do it.
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I guess I'll worry about that when I get married. But, the issue of self acceptance is a critical one. We can't attract the love of others when we don't accept ourselves. It's the invironment that controls the environment.
Abegiii 😏
😂 go and sleep this man
😂 yea I'm still learning to love myself
Hopefully it doesn't take most women too long, like your friend said, from the wedding night onward. Most guys like it when their woman is free around them and not ashamed or afraid.
I would suspect that a lot of women have had to endure some form of body shaming at some point, and have esteem issues, or else they just have esteem issues period, and aren't comfortable in their own body enough to be free, they feel that they are too big or too skinny. I wish they would all be free for their husbands, but unfortunately not always the case.
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Wow I never knew I'll try to be free with myself when I'm around my husband now
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I think most of us have body flaws but when we accept them as part of our beauty, we no longer feel uncomfortable showing them to our better-halves.
Exactly 💯 you said it all