Alone Or With Friends
I have an interesting question to answer on this beautiful community. About friendship. Let's talk about that. :)
Friendship is the most beautiful thing to accompany our journey in this world. Some are lucky to have many sincere friends. There are also those who are less fortunate to have many friends.
There is an environment that plays an important role. Often, we may not be accepted in one environment, and have no friends, but when we move to another environment, we will make many loyal friends.
When we don't have friends at the moment, maybe we are trapped in the wrong environment. But that doesn't mean we have to change ourselves to make friends.
For me, friendship is an important thing in life. But that is not the main thing for us to be able to enjoy and have fun with this life. There are people out there who feel tormented if they don't have friends. But for me, it doesn't matter at all. Because, we can't force anyone to be friends with us.
I admit, I am an introvert. But I make friends easily with new people. Even after the meeting, I had to lock myself in my room to regain my energy.
Maybe because of my introverted nature, I don't have many friends. It's not that I don't want to be friends. It's just that the people around me don't fit my lifestyle.
For example, at school and at university, people around me formed friendship groups and often went out to travel for fun. I can't do that. As a child who lived in a family that could be said to be poor in the past, I only cared about studying, studying, and studying. I don't care at all about spending time having fun with friends.
Indeed, we attract what we want. I don't want to waste time, and I attract people who think like me. I had some friends and we had fun in our own way.
Then, in the end, now my husband is my best friend because he is the one who knows best how to make me comfortable.
Meanwhile, I have several online friends who I can call good friends even though we have never met. We are just good at sharing thoughts and I hope we can meet. Maybe we meet. :)
In the end, I can say that it is not easy to make good friends. When you get them, don't waste them. But if you don't have loyal friends, never be sad. Maybe you just haven't found the right one. And, never force yourself to change just because you want to make friends. That will only attract greater falsehood.
As we grow older, we will understand that friendship is about comfort, and sharing other sides of life with our own unique qualities. :)
Best Regards,
Anggrek Lestari
Anggrek Lestari is an Indonesian fiction writer who has published two major books. Now She is a full-time content creator. She has a goal to share life, poem, and food content that makes others happy and can get inspiration.
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Friends are the family that one chooses to accompany us in our lives, and due to their level of importance there are always too many fingers on our hands to count them.
How great that your husband is your best friend, and I think that's what marriage is about, being as good as a friend with the person we love.
Thank you very much dear friend @anggreklestari for sharing your experience
I have had very few friends in my life, for me friendship is about loyalty and sincerity, I used to suffer a lot for that but not anymore, besides I am a lonely soul sometimes.
I love that your best friend is your husband because we have something in common, mine is too, besides my two sisters who are my jewels and my most precious friends.
I really liked your publication because we think alike in many things.
A hug dear @anggreklestari. ☺️
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What a beautiful place, I can imagine the freshness and the smell that gives them that amount of flowers. We can have many friends, but there are few sincere ones. Friends have to be unconditional, to be by our side in good times and bad. I don't have many, but they are very good. And I enjoy a lot when I am with them. How nice that your husband is your best friend. Thanks for sharing dear @anggreklestari.🤗❤️🥰
I agree with you; it's not easy to make friends, and finding friends we can trust is another tricky thing. I have a little circle of friends, but it doesn't matter to me because I know at the end of the day, only myself and the one who truly cares and loves me matter the most.
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Haha I love that... You make friends easily but enjoy your own company too, it's the best!
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I have just a few friends as well, I love it that way because for me I like to be able to make genuine connections with them.
And you are right, friendships are all about how comfortable we can be around each other.
It's better to have few friends who are true to you rather than to have many friends who turn their backs when you're in crisis. It's a matter of quality over quantity.
The most precious bond between two individuals is friendship. Without someone we can call friends, life is impossible to imagine. Our desire for a friendship informs our decision to make one. Love, integrity, fidelity, and empathy for one another must all be present. Friendship is an infinite source of love and tenderness. The essence of friendship is that a long-lasting connection requires people to have similar mindsets.