(Esp/Eng) ¿COMO CUIDAS LA RELACIÓN CONTIGO? FORMAS PARA SUPERAR LOS BLOQUEOS. INITIATIVE: HOW DO YOU TAKE CARE OF THE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU? WAYS TO OVERCOME BLOCKS
Hello dear Holos&Lotus community, as a Holos lottery fan, I say I am present in this great initiative of the friend @rosahidalgo who gives us the opportunity to express those things or situations that generate some anxiety in us and with which daily activities we tend to put them in reverse so that the joy transports us out of the comfort zone; interesting right? So I'll go with my perspective on it.
Ciertamente en la vida solemos postergar actividades o el uso de ciertas cosas por "esperar un no se que" , literalmente, por andar detrás de nada. Por ejemplo, a mi mamá le encanta esconder los platos más nuevos y vasos de vidrio, disque para
cuando hayan invitados especiales jaja
Certainly in life we tend to postpone activities or the use of certain things to "wait for something or other", literally, to be after nothing. For example, my mom loves to hide the newest plates and glass cups, dial them for when there are special guests jaja.
A lo que yo le respondo, bueno, yo soy tu hija, mi hija tu única nieta en casa y tu la dueña de la misma; así que qué invitados más especiales que nosotros verdad? y suelta la carcajada.
To which I respond, well, I am your daughter, my daughter, your only granddaughter at home and you are the owner of it; So what guests are more special than us, right? and let out a laugh.
It also happens to me that when I go shopping with her and she sees me buying a pair of shoes or sandals, for example, she looks in amazement as I leave the ones I was wearing in the new shoe box and take these with me.
Entonces mi mamá refiere: Y por qué no los guardas para una ocasión especial hija? Y yo le respondo:
Mami, Porque cada día para mí, es una ocasión especial.
Then my mom says: And why don't you save them for a special occasion, daughter? And I answer him:
Mommy, Because every day for me is a special occasion.
Sin embargo , más gracia me da cundo me compro alguna prenda de vestir y alguien me dice: "guárdala para diciembre" y mi respuesta con sonrisas es: " No la compré para diciembre, la compré para mí" ( risas).
However, it makes me even more funny when I buy a piece of clothing and someone tells me: "save it for December" and my response with a smile is: "I didn't buy it for December, I bought it for myself" (laughs).
Total que si, he aprendido que la vida es un divino préstamo y muy corto por cierto, muchas experiencias me han demostrado que no es en vano el popular dicho aquel de:
No dejes para mañana, lo que puedes hacer hoy.
De igual manera, el inesperado deceso de grandes afectos me han ratificado que la vida es aquí y el ahora, hoy estamos, mañana no sabemos y el ver morir hace 6 años a mi esposo de escasos 35 años y aparente salud integral de una súbita aneurisma cerebral , me terminó de resetear por completo el chip de modus vivendis y desde entonces, aún más vivo cada día como si fuese el último.
Totally yes, I have learned that life is a divine loan and very short indeed, many experiences have shown me that the popular saying is not in vain:
Don't leave for tomorrow what you can do today.
In the same way, the unexpected death of great affections has confirmed to me that life is here and now, today we are here, tomorrow we don't know and seeing my husband, barely 35 years old and apparently in complete health, die 6 years ago from a sudden aneurysm brain, he finished completely resetting my modus vivendis chip and since then, I live even more every day as if it were my last.
En ese proceso, procuro no preocuparme demás, sino ocuparme; también procuro no quejarme de nada, pues, la queja atrae malas vibras a nuestras vidas y en ese mismo orden procuro pensar positivo siempre aferrada a la fé en Dios; sin embargo, soy humana y como tal, flaqueo en situaciones apremiantes.
Ahora, respecto al siguiente planteamiento:
Cuéntame las cosas que haces o harías para que la alegría te saque de la zona de confort, la ansiedad neutral o el bloqueo.
In this process, I try not to worry too much, but rather to take care of myself; I also try not to complain about anything, because complaining attracts bad vibes to our lives and in that same order I try to think positively, always clinging to faith in God; However, I am human and as such, I falter in pressing situations.
Now, regarding the following approach:
Tell me the things you do or would do so that joy takes you out of your comfort zone, neutral anxiety or blockage.
gozo en mi corazón y que la alegría aflore a niveles inquebrantables, es sumergirme en la Oración y dejar que el espíritu Santo de Dios se apodere de mi ser y lo impregne de paz en su divina esencia.
In addition to the above, what I do daily to always maintain joy in my heart and for joy to emerge at unbreakable levels, is to immerse myself in Prayer and let the Holy Spirit of May God take over my being and impregnate it with peace in his divine essence.
Another unavoidable activity that he carried out daily is to enjoy, encourage and be grateful for family union and love, that which is priceless and irreplaceable in every area of our life and for which, day by day, we have a gigantic reason to continue.
A third and no less important, sharing with friends, those great affections that, without being part of our blood, become brothers who gave us life thanks to their affection, loyalty and unconditional support.
And to close this quartet of elements in my case, I allow myself to fully process any sadness that overwhelms me by burning its stages in order, because after processing it properly and overcoming it as such, empowered joy parades down the red carpet of my soul. ** and there is a real party inside me with candy, whistles and other colorful toys.
Si, con estos 4 ítems que me han servido de muchísimo y se los recomiendo a ojos cerrados queridos amig@s Holos loteros, me despido de esta fabulosa iniciativa e invito a @zhanavic69 y @yurahyd43 a dejar acá su (participación) la cual, la auguro excelente.
Yes, with these 4 items that have helped me a lot and I recommend them with closed eyes dear friends Holos loteros, I say goodbye to this fabulous initiative and invite @zhanavic69 and @yurahyd43 to leave their (participation) which, I predict excellent.
Fotografías de mi absoluta propiedad, capturadas con mi dispositivo Tecno Go 2024.
Photographs of my absolute property, captured with my Tecno Go 2024 device.
si creo que casi todas las madres son asi porque fui hija y soy madre y me pasa a veces digo dejame guardar pero después reacciono y digo para cuando y para que si te queda menos que cuando llegastes a la vida jjjjj
Jajaja, si amiga linda, ciertamente es así . Continuamos adelante y sin reservas, es lo mejor. Gracias por tu valioso apoyo. Saludos cordiales.
Las vibraciones de la alegría son música sanadora del alma
Nada más cercano a la realidad estimado amigo. Saludos cordiales.
Saludos
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Muy agradecida por su valioso apoyo. Saludos cordiales.