Accomplishments, stress, challenges: 7 years of being your mother
Being a mother is an extremely difficult task, the problems and obligations never end, at this point in my life I am still adapting to the new things I experience with my son, it has been a challenge but at the same time it is a very nice experience, this last month I have been too stressed because my son has begun to experience what are school exams, projects and others, I never get the right words to understand me or explain well about things in life, little by little I am learning and I feel good to be able to move forward with him.
During this month he has at least one evaluation at school a week and to be very honest when I started with the first one it was chaos, I couldn't figure out how to make him understand the topic I had to talk about in class, even though it was something very simple it was very hard for me to make him understand, my son sometimes speaks with very messy words, even though he is already speaking much better than before, sometimes he gets stuck when speaking, that's why I wanted to do things a little differently and I was practicing with him in different ways until I got him to understand the information and say it fluently, from that moment on I started to study a lot with him for each subject of the school, he already writes faster than before and I am also trying to improve his handwriting, it is not easy but it has been worth it.
Although at school they receive education it is always good to reinforce at home, even the simplest subjects, I also try to teach him in a fun and friendly way, very different from my time where if you did not know how to read mom hit you with a belt hahaha, his teacher has also helped us a lot to help Damian to get along better socially, she even takes pictures with him and the teacher tells me that Damian always sits and talks with her.
And as I said before, it was worth it, he has gotten very good grades in all his evaluations and there are still more to come in which I am sure he will do very well, sometimes he gets frustrated and starts saying negative comments about himself, but I try to calm him down and tell him nice things so he knows that he is very smart and that he can achieve anything he sets his mind to.
I am very very very tired, it doesn't give me much time to do almost anything but I still feel joy for him, because he is growing and improving in many aspects of his life, I am happy to know that we are doing well and I always try to give him words of motivation so that he always keeps that beautiful sparkle in his eyes.
Ayyy amiga justo hoy hablaba de eso, es muy difícil el mundo de la maternidad y lo más difícil es saber hacerlo bien, porque nunca lo sabemos y da miedo cometer errores. Te abrazo en este duro camino, sigue adelante tu Príncipe te dara fuerzas para continuar a pesar de lo agotada que puedas estar. Saludos amiga bella y muchísimas Bendiciones 😊
Que lindo. Si ser mamá es un reto agotador, sobre todo para este tiempo de terminar el segundo momento pedagogico. Pero va a llegar el momento que ellos se independizan y vas a sentir más bien que extrañaras estar ocupada. Saludos