The Happiest Day in My Life || Ladies of Hive Contest #168

Hi, ladies.

I have a moment that made me so special until this time. I want to share it with you about the theme of Ladies Of Hive Contest 168 from @joanstewart .

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Discriptive best day in your life so far — childhood, holiday, wedding, children, any day you feel made you the happiest.
A specific time when you found something profoundly affected your way of thinking, changed you, or simply made you happy!

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There have been many moments that I have experienced throughout my life. Pleasant moments are definitely not few in number. Although my life has recently felt so monotonous, I will not forget this particular moment. The moment when I planned my wedding with my husband.

There is nothing better than this fate. I found him while I was still working at one of the interior design offices. He was a new recruit who joined after I had been working there for 3 months. I never thought that we would work together as direct teammates. With such close intensity.

Soulmates are fate. And this fate unfolded so effortlessly. I will never forget the day when I invited him to eat at a satay stall near the office after work. He didn't refuse. Is it a green light, isn't it? I am used to expressing my feelings openly.

During our first conversation over dinner, we discovered compatibility. We talked about our future visions and missions, discussed marriage, and shared about our families. The conversation flowed naturally until we realized a growing sense of comfort in our togetherness.

Starting a relationship with someone is not an easy. The more intense our discussions are about marriage, I have a lot of insecurities. What can I do for my partner? I can't cook and I was a messy girl at my home. I always wake up late and do nothing almost everyday. But, marriage is a take and give package. My partner and I had a deep talk before this. About how to handle domestic work in our house. All of us can do everything we want, waking up late, too.

Getting married was indeed our goal at that time, but the process couldn't be rushed. There were many things that needed to be prepared, especially regarding our financial budget.

Have you ever thought, "Is he truly my soulmate?" as the wedding day approached?

I have had such thoughts. My mind was filled with doubts about my own decision. However, I strengthened my thoughts by praying to God to facilitate everything we were planning. It's simply that we can do something in many ways if it's a good thing, right?

Then, we got married.

How's life after getting married? Everything was incredible!

Nobody had to know what we would get without trying. I didn't find anything different about my husband, both before or after marriage. He remained the same person I had known all along. My fears slowly faded away. I'm glad that the man I married is him. I can't imagine it wasn't him.

This journey will be very long, but so far, I can feel how to be loved by someone. And it's going to last forever, I hope.

Afrianti Pratiwi

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