Do you struggle with decision-making?

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Indecision is a situation whereby the right decision is not made despite the amount of thought or effort by people to achieve a goal.
We have all encountered this issue at some point. However many could be less or more. Some people struggle with indecision or frequently make poor decisions because they lack confidence in their capacity to do so and lack knowledge of the principles of doing so.

Making decisions can be difficult from time to time. Particularly if the choice can have a major influence on your life, like ending a relationship or changing jobs.
Therefore, short-term indecision is not necessarily harmful. To select the best solution, it is helpful to consider the advantages and disadvantages of each alternative and to evaluate the problems.
It is more upsetting when situations occur virtually daily, even about simple matters, especially when indecision is sometimes viewed as a sign of weakness in a society that values achievement.

8 Tips Of making the right choice

1. Take responsibility for your choices.

Don't look back after you have made a decision; just follow up. Start with easy settings, such as choosing from a catalogue, and then gradually make things harder. The risk of being indecisive is to be only in your thoughts and never take action.

2. Discover who you are.


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Establish your choices, requirements, desires, expectations, skills, and priorities. You are willing to come to decisions as a result of a greater understanding of what is important to you. You don't necessarily succeed? after that! You will be able to state what you don't want at least.

3. Make an exclusion table.

Listing the advantages and disadvantages of each choice.
By doing this, you can relax and take a step back. Better still, enter a percentage for each element based on its desired importance.

4. Observe your physical responses.

Breathe deeply to help you relax and create a space in your mind, then see what will happen as precisely as you can (effects, results etc)

5. Do not rush things.

Set a time limit, for instance, 15 minutes for yourself to make the final decision while selecting an item or making important choices.

6. Think of every possibility.

It's possible that a choice won't have the desired results. It might, however, turn out to be even better than you anticipated. The likelihood of the worst-case outcome going to occur is frequently low. Learn to accept and consider the situation properly, as if you were advising someone else.

7. Educate yourself.

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Whenever you want to purchase goods or services, go online to make research about it. Your selection will be simpler if you have a clearer idea of what is in store for you.

8. Permit yourself to make mistakes.

Are you regretting your choice? Usually, something can be fixed. You can go back and correct your mistakes, or at the very least, learn from them. Be careful not to let regrets overpower you.

You might not be successful at your job if you make a careless mistake. Your life can be changed by a good decision just as it can be ruined by a poor one. Therefore, when choosing a choice, we ought to do so wisely. However, avoid becoming indecisive about yourself.

Thank you all for reading.



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Thank you, I will be partaking in the Halloween challenge

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I guess at some point some of us get challenged with coming up with a decision. These are absolutely amazing tips to do to develop good decisive muscles so to speak :)

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It's a great challenge for us to decide at a particular point but we have to take a deep breath, think about it and make the decision. We should not rush things

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That's right. Deciding should not be done in a hasty manner.

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Wow, this is indeed a great piece.

This is one of the similar challenge everyone go through in one way or the other.

This is just an amazing tips and guidelines that will be helpful.

Time taken is one important thing that should be implemented while making decisions, no need to rush things. Easy does it all.

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Exactly ,you don't need to rush, just calm your never and think about way forward

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You are right.

And perhaps if mistakes sets in, one shouldn't feel bad about it but rather learn from it in achieving better

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Exactly, don't be the type that you don't want to make mistakes, you rather learn from your mistakes

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👍 💯

I could remember some years back when I was always afraid of making mistakes, it makes me feel really bitter and I hated myself for it anytime it happened.

But now, I know better

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Mistakes are bound to happen but you must be working towards perfection. By making mistakes , it proves that you are making progress, and then you learn more

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I guess at the end of the day, it all comes down to adequate self assessment and understanding that no one is perfect. It may take one two rough paths to get on track, but it'll work out as long as we try.

Brilliant tips you have shared.

#dreemport

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Thank you for stopping by and I appreciate creating time to read my post.
I hope you are enjoying Halloween😊😊

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Nope I think, check, act and only if I can have an impact, came by the dreemport

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We most times fall into indecision because most times, we are afraid of choosing and in the end, it turns bad for us. We need to realize that we can only make decisions by ourselves and be responsible for whatever that happens, plus those tips are great to follow and be on the right track.
I came through Dreemport 😊

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Thank you for the contribution princess , we don't need to rush when making decisions. We should relax , think and make the right decision

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some valuable tips in there, thanks for sharing them with us

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Thank you for your contribution, I hope you had a nice Halloween celebration.

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These are interesting facts to follow.. Thanks for sharing.
Waltzed in through dreemport.

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Wow, that's very nice, I do appreciate your time reading this piece. One love my friend

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Opeyemi with your tips I shouldn't go astray in making the right decision. Accurate decision making is one of those things people struggle with.

Thank for sharing, Hopped in through @dreemport and cheers to making right decisions 🥂

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Wow thanks for reading, I hope you make the right decisions in your journey of life

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Talk to me directly! 🥲
I'm so good at struggling with decisions, almost never decisive 😒

Don't look back after you have made a decision; just follow up

And what if there are obvious signs that you're on the wrong path with your decision?

What do one do then? Still follow it up till when?

You've shared really good tips, I'm taking lessons 😁

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Lol, everyone is guilty of struggling with decisions anyway. But I realise if we take our time to think very well about the step to take, we are going to make the right decision.

Most of the time we rush things and it's a red flag in decision-making, if we relax and think deeply we are going to be on the safer side. But if the decision later turns into an odd decision, then we learn from the mistake

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Okay, very clear
Thanks for making me have a deeper thought about decision making self 😊

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Thank you for the compliment and I wish you all the best in your decision-making about your lifestyle

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These tips are quite helpful. Making decisions most times is not as easy as one may think. To make a good decision, one must put a lot of things into consideration. Hence, you marshalled your points very well.
Well done.
@dreemport led me here.

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I'd like to appreciate you for reading and commenting, I hope these tips help you in decision-making.
Continue to spread love and be happy always.
Big love from @dreemport

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I like weighing up the pros and cons!
Good ideas in here.

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Thank you for your contribution.
Both pros and cons should be weighed, you got it right

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This makes sense :) We also need to remember that if we don't make a decision, that in itself is a decision.

I found your post via Dreemport 🙌

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